Oh yeah and the exception to that lone pair trick for Othro/para Is R groups, all R groups are ortho/Para even though they never have Lone pairs. notice however this additional exception and if you catch this you'll identify every META and ORTHO/PARA Aco groups, you know the ones with a (-) on one of the oxygens, they are ORTHO/PARA. and a carbonyl with a Primary N on it are Ortho Para, EVERYTHING else can use the Lone pair Trick.
If something has no lone pairs, its deactivating and meta directing.
So a carbon bonded to a benzene and triple bonded to a N will be META, because it has no lone pairs. Got me?