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Are or have any of you been in the situation of being accepted to medical school having good friends who did not get in? How did you handle the situation?
Originally posted by NYCOMScrubs:
•I agree with JP. While it is imposrtant not to rub your friend's face in the fact that you got in and they didn't, you should not have to deny your accomplishment. You have a responsibilty as a friend to console your friend and spur them on to apply again and not give up. On the flip side, your friend has the responsibility to fight off negative feelings and be happy for you and your achievement. If you are truely good friends you should be able to share all the good things and all the bad things in your lives together. To simply avoid the topic of med school could be detrimental to your friendship. In just a few months, med school will be your life. You'd be amazed at how limited your conversations will become if you cut out any mention of school. What does it say about a friendship if you have to aviod sharing something very big in your life. While it will be hard for your friend, if they truely love you they will be happy for you and help you celebrate your acceptance just as you as a true friend will empathize with them and help them grieve and move on. Help them improve their application and give them tons of encouragement but do not deny yourslef. You've worked extremely hard and its just as important for yo uto feel good about what you've done as it is to feel bad about your friend's bad luck.•