Originally posted by H0mersimps0n
I'm not familiar with the details of a couples match, but when we do get married after her first year (end of my 2nd/beginning 3rd), is it worth going through hoops to do that match or is there very little guarentee that things would even work out?
What do most people in similar situations do to assure they get as close as humanly possible to their significant other's?
From what I understand my choices are:
1.) assume she will stay at Maryland and just try to get my residency there
2.) Take a year off (probable not feasible)
3.) Apply for a residency in PA, close to Baltimore so I can do that annoying extra year of intern or fellowship or whatever the heck it's called then enter the match my 5th year with her (is that how those extra year's work in those states?) -
Thanks again!
Obviously YOUR choices will be dictated by what you and your love decide. It sounds like you have pretty good communication which is the most important thing in going through this process with someone else (so count that as a great blessing as you start on this path!!

). If the two of you like the Maryland area and think you would be happy in residency training there, then by all means go ahead and look there for residency. Then when your honey is looking for residency she will just look there, too, and you'll still be together and everything will be grand. Just make sure that you keep the lines of communication open over the next couple of years and revisit the issue periodically to make sure you're on the same page. It depends, too, on what specialties you both end up pursuing. If you are both going after less competitive specialties you will have more flexibility and options. That sort of goes without saying, but it will factor into where you guys are able to do your post-grad training.
I'm curious why taking a year off isn't feasible... Do you have a specific reason or is it just contrary to what you've heard from other people?
I know you are looking for some specifics about how the couples match works. I think the NRMP does a pretty good job explaining how it works. Here's the direct web address:
http://www.nrmp.org/res_match/special_part/ind_app/couples.html
If you still have questions after reading this, don't hesitate to e-mail/PM me or post more ?s here. FYI, my husband and I are couples matching in med-peds and psych, respectively.
As far as the rotating intern year is concerned, it will generally be counted towards your training in some manner. Several osteo programs have tracking internships so you don't end up actually doing any extra training time (i.e. no more than if you'd done a straight allo residency in the same specialty), but this of course varies from specialty to specialty. Lots of people end up doing the transitional year because either they want to keep up their AOA certification and/or practice in one of the 5 states AND/OR they aren't sure what they want to specialize in by their fourth year of school and they want the extra year to figure it out (and that is true for both osteo and allo students - the option of doing a transitional year is also there for MD students). Some residency programs (like radiology, for instance) require a preliminary intern year anyway.
This is all a lot of detail, and you don't want to get too bogged down in it yet since you've still got lots of time. Hopefully some of this info helps though. My biggest advice for now would be to enjoy your summer!!!
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