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Thanks for the advice.
I guess another reason I am mainly asking is because some MD schools and nearly all DO schools ask for a shadowing LOR and I'm just wondering what they can really say besides that I was polite/respectful and asked good questions?
Am I missing something? I want to act in a way so they do have something substantial to say in those letters of recommendations.
Do you blame me?!
When I request a LOR from the physician and give them a list of things to possibly include in the letter, I want to make sure I actually have a list of of positive things they can include! I do not personally see anything wrong with acting a certain way. I don't believe it would be forced. But I can be quiet/shy at times so I want to make sure I make an active effort to display qualities that adcoms expect to see mentioned in LORs. @caffeinemia
If you are looking for a physician LOR, I would suggest asking a professor or an employer who is an MD or DO. Those professionals would be able to comment on your academic, clinical, and personal qualities based on extensive and regular observation. Such an evaluation would be more valued by medical schools.
I highly doubt letters from physicians you shadowed will contribute as much depth, especially if there is a large gap between the time you did the observation and the time you request the letter. At most they might be able to say that you were interested and asked insightful questions. IMO, shadowing is a time to learn more about the medical profession rather than planning for prospective LORs.
Perhaps @sephora89 has a med school committee like mine, which requires a LOR from an MD (if applying to MD schools) that specifically talks about patient (not clinical research subject) interaction. I have no idea why this is a requirement but unfortunately it seems like a hoop that we have to jump through.
Hold up. GIRL! Are you telling me you can actually request that your letter writers include certain things in the letter? Whattttttt. I can't even.. Never ever heard of... Mind blown. I thought these letters were typically closed letters. What's going on here. Have I been deceived all my life?
Hold up. GIRL! Are you telling me you can actually request that your letter writers include certain things in the letter? Whattttttt. I can't even.. Never ever heard of... Mind blown. I thought these letters were typically closed letters. What's going on here. Have I been deceived all my life?
I think what you're going for is... behaving professionally. Be punctual, be respectful. Show interest if you have it. Avoid being effusively enthusiastic, if it is not you. It will be disingenuous. Don't be awkward, overbearing. Absolutely don't cut someone off - patient, nurse, staff, or physician.
If you are really quick and catch on to the doctor's routine and he's okay with it, you can take the initiative to do small chores to facilitate the visit. Grab a chart from the door. If it's a procedurally oriented practice, fetch the suture removal kits for suture removals. If it's some minor procedure position the trashcan, gloves, other PPE in a convenient place. Help clean up (safely) afterwards. If a dressing is being changed, see if you can lend a hand opening dressings. I swear, this is like common sense stuff that's actually helpful but seems to be missed by medical students all the time. You could shine with some initiative.
A good mentor will ask you, "what do you think" or "do you have any questions?" Take that opportunity to shine.
I think it is a ridiculous requirement too. I don't know what they can say beyond "Sephora is a nice/respectful girl and asks interesting questions." @dechristine
Really?
This happens ALL the time.