For the hurried bride on a budget...
1) Start way, way ahead of time if you can. Like a year. Start with finding your dress, then make the invitations. (It's easier than you think, and they can be absolutely beautiful. If you want suggestions on how to make really gorgeous invites, pm me.) Find a place that doesn't need too much decorating, like a beautiful church or a gorgeous outdoor location. Or, you could get married in a pub, like I did! :wink: Even better if the place has facilties attached for the reception. Do everything on weekends, and one step at a time.
2) KEEP IT SMALL! 60 guests or less. And keep your wedding party small, or let them wear their prettiest black dresses (that's what I did). If your brides maids must match, don't have more than three - organizing fittings, hairdos, flowers and all that junk takes forever, even with three people.
3) Delegate responsibility, be clear about what you want, and then accept their interpretation of what you want. I've found that in delegating, it helps ones nerves if you don't micro-manage everything. Make sure, though, that you trust the person's taste - they may have better ideas than you do! This is a big part of the idea behind resort weddings.
4) Whatever you do, make sure you're having fun! Allow yourself to be really, really creative. Some of the best, most meaningful weddings I've ever been to have been intimate, inspired events that completely mirrored the couple getting married, rather than the society marrying them. Recently, my father got married on the fly on top of a mountain overlooking the ocean. We had one week notice. There were no attendants, except us kids. Dad and brothers wore a tux, I wore a nice suit, bride wore a beautiful gold gown made especially for her. They kissed to seal their vows at the moment the sun went down. Not a dry eye to be seen! After, the family went to dinner at a great restaurant, got drunk and told stories. It's not something I'm likely to forget...
Hope this helps!
Nanon