My opinion on this matter.......
I'm a mother of 2 boys and let me tell you guys that I'd do all I can to pay for my boys education. It's a gift that if one is able to do it, then why not? It depends on a lot of things for each family.
My gut, my heart and my culture will make me pay for ALL their education. I will make them appreciate it & they will have to work to pay for some stuff like cell phone, clothes, going out....small things.
I hope they don't want to become Drs or Dentists
I think I have a Meteorologist and a Judge at home right now
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In my culture you take care of your children, and then they will take care of you when you are old. I'm dying to take care of my parents any way I can. In my culture you don't pray that your children move out of the house at 18
😱 You want them to stay with you until they get married.
I see a lot of Seniors alone here in Florida. It's really weird to me to see such a thing.
But the American culture is this way & I don't judge it at all, but won't lie and say that I like it. I have friends starting a career and family with huge student loans when parents could have helped them out when they were studying. Some children need to learn the hard way, some others don't. Some appreciate that you pay the whole cost of attendance--some other don't care and get kick out of school for not studying
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I rather have less at retirement, but have my children free of loans. Life is too short and we could be working hard to save $4 million for retirement and die at 50....
This is not to say that I look down at wealthy parents that don't pay for their children's education. It's my 2 cents and I have another culture, and different family values.
I hope God gives me a lot of health to work for my boys. After all, what else could be more fun paying for?
My thinking does NOT make me a "better" parent for thinking this way, OK? Being a parent will be the hardest thing you will ever do
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