Very unfortunate situation. Every one has cheated in some way throughout college, it's just a matter of being unlucky. It definitely hurts considering the competitive field - it's just an easy way to weed out an applicant in a pile of thousands of applications. Might need a gap year to prove something more or less.
Wait. You are making a blanket statement that everyone has cheated in college--and it's about being unlucky?
Even if this were true, which it is not, it has NOTHING to do with luck.
See go ahead and laugh, but some of us really believe that there is nothing that we do that is missed by God. And even if you totally don't believe that, consider this. Everywhere you go, pretty much, there are videos watching you--this is definitely true in the hospital. This is true in various offices and clinics. Heck, this is true in patients' homes where they received care, evaluation, and treatment from nurses. In the hospitals, for example, many intensive care units, you are watched like a hawk--even whilst others are busy with their own patients and situations. On the computer, every keystroke is monitored. And there are usually always people that can hear what you say and are like a little bird that can carry it to someone else. Things can be misinterpreted or even correctly understood: eg., "That fat, ugly, drug-seeking biatch is a @#$%ing waste of my life." Mouth off like that, yes. That may well come back to haunt you.
Heck, I have had patients in comas that were not expected to live. While orienting new RNs to cases can be tricky. One young stud RN thought that he was a cute smart azz and was very flip and disrespectful with the, then, comatose patient. I gave him the 411 on being very careful, b/c patients will surprise, and later the will recall what you said or did. 5 days later the lady awoke, quiet unexpectedly, and began to speak. She saw him (stud RN) and looked at me and said, "I do not want him as my nurse." She was adamant. She remembered his disrespectfulness of her.
Now I say all this to make a point. What we do ALWAYS has consequences. We may not even see them right away. But that is a sobering thought to a healthcare provider or physician--at least it should be.
OP, I don't give up on you; but never, ever assume that the consequences of your actions will not come back to visit you. You may get away with a thing or two; but now you risk developing a pattern--a pattern that will determining who you are, which is more than a title. It's a lot about what we do and why. Is this who you want to be?
Seriously, this is about some old fashioned repentance. I don't know what they will say or what your restitution will be; but a mere "I'm sorry" isn't going to make people believe you have changed. It's a start, but you have your work cut out for you. When you lose trust and credibility, you lose A LOT, and no 4.0 will ever make up for that.
Success means that you need to have the integrity not to screw up what you have done. A poor grade is not worse than poor integrity. None of us is perfect, but you have to find a way to make this right. You have to sit and talk with the dean.
BTW, people that cheat and seem to get away with it will ultimately have to realize that cheating is not a viable game plan. Are you going to cheat on med school exams, shelves, steps, board exams?? It's a no brainer that this approach cannot work in the long run. Plus, you have to live with feeling like a fake.