For starters, I don't consider the nurse not jumping out of his chair or being unwilling to get you a cup of coffee insub. I am writing this thread because it's obvious that most of us here are House Officers, and fall into a "gray zone" if you will regarding the manner in which other members of the health care team treat us. Granted, there are plenty of nurses and the like I've run into who are perfectly respectable. However, especially in the units, there seems to be a pervasive idea that it is OK to be obnoxious and disrespectful to HS because they're "not really doctors yet." While it's true that we're not yet board-certified, we have (in most cases, anyway) unrestricted PHYSICIAN'S licenses for our respective states. We write ORDERS that the nursing staff have to follow. We take responsibility for judgement errors on rounds, not the nurses. There's nothing to stop a nurse from refusing to extubate a paralyzed patient because she also has a license to protect, but the opportunity to refuse the doc's orders comes very seldomly indeed.
I think that the most important thing to remember when dealing with the nurses is that we have the upper-hand, and they know it. Don't let them get you mad, as it only serves to loosen your hold on the other nurses who are watching the situation unfold. If you have someone who's acting incorrectly, just remind them that you wrote the ORDER, and that they need to follow it (or give a hell of a reason why not).
Don't argue with them. Don't get sucked into petty wastes of your energy while you try to "win them over." Some nurses are happy to be nurses; some are not so happy and will take every opportunity to deride those they view as vulnerable (HS) to such efforts. My wife is a nurse, and she's been frustrated many times with her co-workers who stymie residents merely because they have it in their heads that they're in a better position to decide what the patient needs. Don't give them the satisfaction of thinking they've got your number.
I think that the most important thing to remember when dealing with the nurses is that we have the upper-hand, and they know it. Don't let them get you mad, as it only serves to loosen your hold on the other nurses who are watching the situation unfold. If you have someone who's acting incorrectly, just remind them that you wrote the ORDER, and that they need to follow it (or give a hell of a reason why not).
Don't argue with them. Don't get sucked into petty wastes of your energy while you try to "win them over." Some nurses are happy to be nurses; some are not so happy and will take every opportunity to deride those they view as vulnerable (HS) to such efforts. My wife is a nurse, and she's been frustrated many times with her co-workers who stymie residents merely because they have it in their heads that they're in a better position to decide what the patient needs. Don't give them the satisfaction of thinking they've got your number.