this isnt a medical q, its a cultural one. im an "abcd" (female) married to a "fob". most of my friends and i have grown up in families where u spend a LOT of time with ur family and very little with ur friends (ie it's a big deal to hang out w ur friends even once a week). my husband, on the other hand, thinks its totally normal to hang out with his friends every weekend (a few hours per weekend or more, but not every day). most times, they make plans at the last minute and i/he find out 1 hr before he is to leave. i dont like hanging out with his friends and their wives because i cant relate and it feels really forced. he's also an extroverted person while im not which may contribute to my not really understanding this. so what is expected in desi culture amongst guys? how often do guys get together w their friends (before they have kids) usually?