Agree with this tons!!! hahaha. I was volunteering and one patient was talking to me for almost 30 minutes. Then, I politely said thank you so much for the conversation I enjoyed it (genuinely did) but I'll be back soon after I make my rounds and check on my other patients. Then the nurse came over and said "I feel SOOO bad for you she is SUCH a talker thank you for distracting her for a while" and I was standing there thinking wtf she didn't say anything rude or boring she talked about where she works and her family I don't mind hearing about it. And she wasn't one of those women who ONLY wants to talk about herself (lol if anyone wants to flame me for this but I had to say it), she asked me about my education, goals, etc.
The other most common thing I see nurses doing is ask me to please get all the charts ready for the next THREE days ready even though when I arrive they only have them pulled for one day in advance. I pull the charts while nurses celebrate last-minute cancellations and sit and talk about where they want to go on vacation, about hot dates (those ones I listen in on since a few nurses we have are hot), etc. I do think it is kind of crazy that a volunteer really does more than them in those 4 hours (delivering/retrieving blood and platelets, filing until the fingers are almost bleeding, getting the patients everything they want). The nurses just write down any problems the patients are having with their medications and start them on their drips and walk away back to conversation. 🙁 It's very disappointing but there are those that are truly amazing I just hope we train some more of the latter soon. And I agree with someone above who said they need to be better educated - I do not think they know enough. Another story for that but too long to type 👍