It's a personal decision. But since people seem to be basing their opinions on limited points of view, I'll share my story...
I turned down my NYCOM interview because the woman whom I spoke to in admissions was so incredibly rude to me, I couldn't imagine spending 4 years at a place where people treat others in that manner. Now, I went out on a limb and didn't assume that NYCOM was a terrible place overall because of this one experience, and I certainly would not tell others not to attend because of it!
The winters in Erie are snowy. So are the winters in the surrounding areas. So following that logic, you better turn down any acceptances to SUNY Upstate, Buffalo, or U of Rochester as well. It doesn't matter what kind of education you may miss out on, because, for god sakes, IT SNOWS THERE!!
LECOM has been the ideal place for me. The people are nice, the education is outstanding, the PBL program suits my personal style, and I have a snow brush, so all is well in my "dreary" world.
And by the way, you're right, who needs to be told what to wear in their 20's? I don't know any of my friends who have careers that have to wear ties everyday. Their employers are pleased when they come to work in sweats. Honestly, the dress code is a pain in the a$$, but it's the standard in most professional environments. I know that we are "students", but we'd be dressing this way everyday had we not gotten into med school and were in the working world. I can think of things much more relevant to base my school choices on.
Like the clinical affiliations, for one. But most of all, how you felt when you were on each campus, and in each community. I'm sure lots of people love living downstate. I personally prefer Erie. I'm not wrong, its just an opinion. So go with your gut, and with real, factual information. Not a silly argument on SDN based on "my friend has a friend who's cousin drove by LECOM once, and..." anecdotes.
Good luck, and I wish you the best no matter where you end up!