Help! My girlfriend of 3 weeks wants to break up with me :(

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You don't want to do any stupid thing that would damage your reputation and ruin any possible chance of other girls accepting you as their bf.
 
I am now presented with an opportunity to strike back at her. Texts have been flaring up regarding my situations and our friends. Since she became friends with my friends, they know some things about her that she didn't want me to know. Apparently, her ex broke up with her because she cheated on him and she has had a history of cheating on him and her other exes. She claims that when she gets bored with a relationship she has the need to find a spark to rekindle it, and the only way to do that is to flirt and sleep with other dudes.

Also, her ex doesn't know about me and her dating, and I was given his phone number. I can tell him that what she did to me and he can end this relationship with her because he is giving her one last chance. He also doesn't know about her past except one incident where she slept with a guy. So if I tell him, then something may happen and he may leave her. From what I hear he is somewhat of a decent guy and I don't want her to screw him as well.


What do you guys think?

Sounds like a plan man. So everyone will get a little of what they deserve? Let us know how it turns out. This aught to be good, more interesting than the new batman movie. 😉

PS: her bf sounds like a class A loser too. Give someone who cheated on you another chance? For what? LOL. He'll get what he deserved soon enough. Your girl got it all figured out, surrounded herself with wanna be victims.
 
Still catching tons of fish with troll bait.

I tip my cap to you, sir.

Hey man. Here I am, topless, reading these entertaining posts while drinking a cup of Jack and coke in bed next to my wife who's watching Desperate Housewives episode 468 or bazillion+1.

Hey, but this is so much better than Desperate Housewives! :laugh:
 
I am now presented with an opportunity to strike back at her. Texts have been flaring up regarding my situations and our friends. Since she became friends with my friends, they know some things about her that she didn't want me to know. Apparently, her ex broke up with her because she cheated on him and she has had a history of cheating on him and her other exes. She claims that when she gets bored with a relationship she has the need to find a spark to rekindle it, and the only way to do that is to flirt and sleep with other dudes.

Also, her ex doesn't know about me and her dating, and I was given his phone number. I can tell him that what she did to me and he can end this relationship with her because he is giving her one last chance. He also doesn't know about her past except one incident where she slept with a guy. So if I tell him, then something may happen and he may leave her. From what I hear he is somewhat of a decent guy and I don't want her to screw him as well.


What do you guys think?


...you really want to date a girl with a history of cheating on her boyfriend?

Run. Away.

She's not even worth your time today, let alone a long term relationship.
 
Hey man. Here I am, topless, reading these entertaining posts while drinking a cup of Jack and coke in bed next to my wife who's watching Desperate Housewives episode 468 or bazillion+1.

Hey, but this is so much better than Desperate Housewives! :laugh:

What is it with wives and desperate housevies anyway? My wife is running through that show for the second time on Netflix.
 
What is it with wives and desperate housevies anyway? My wife is running through that show for the second time on Netflix.

Got no idea, but it must be in tune with some part of the female psyche or some mumble jumble deep philosophical concept.

But funny that yours is watching that on Netflix too at the same time. Awesome! Cheers! 👍
 
Well, she's actually asleep now. That's what pregnancy does to a woman, I guess.
 
Well, she's actually asleep now. That's what pregnancy does to a woman, I guess.

Well, being addicted to Desperate Housewives isn't bad. Mine just got all emotional during those months, and that was during residency too. Oh good times!
 
Well, being addicted to Desperate Housewives isn't bad. Mine just got all emotional during those months, and that was during residency too. Oh good times!

Well, she's emotional too, but not bad emotional...just the adorable kind.
 
Got no idea, but it must be in tune with some part of the female psyche or some mumble jumble deep philosophical concept.

But funny that yours is watching that on Netflix too at the same time. Awesome! Cheers! 👍

It has lots of male eye candy in it. :idea:
 
Can someone please ban this fool from posting on SDN. Even in an anonymous online forum, I am embarrassed for the entire profession.
 
He's a better troll than you'll ever be :meanie:

I agree. Dude has mad talent. I couldn't come up with a multi page thread off of an incredibly bad made up story like this without getting banned and/or people realizing I'm not just making it up.

Where have you been anyway?

I'm just too damn happy to be on the internet that much nowadays. Too much stuff to do and enough money to do it with. Travel, entertainment experiences, fixing up the house...etc...
 
I agree. Dude has mad talent. I couldn't come up with a multi page thread off of an incredibly bad made up story like this without getting banned and/or people realizing I'm not just making it up.



I'm just too damn happy to be on the internet that much nowadays. Too much stuff to do and enough money to do it with. Travel, entertainment experiences, fixing up the house...etc...

Just made it to the end of season 2 of the wire. now i finally understand your avatar.
 
How does this geek's crying about a girlfriend get more replies on a professional board than people asking actual questions and discussion? I mean COME ON
 
She used you for sex and for rides, but hey, at least you didn't lose a ton of money too! :laugh:
 
How does this geek's crying about a girlfriend get more replies on a professional board than people asking actual questions and discussion? I mean COME ON

Easy:
  • people love drama
 
is this forum even serious anymore?

text her this "You know what? You are everything I didn't think I wanted in a girl"
 
is that girl asian?

YES!



She used you for sex and for rides, but hey, at least you didn't lose a ton of money too! :laugh:


Well I did pay for her dinner, also numerous time where I drove to her place which is an hour away and she never want to go to mine or meet me half way. Come to think of it she always schedule me to come to her place when her roommie isn't there so that she doesn't tell her parents about me. Sigh



is this forum even serious anymore?


My case is related to pharmacy because the girl who broke up with me is going to pharmacy school and my other two threads is also related to pharmacy.

text her this "You know what? You are everything I didn't think I wanted in a girl"


I didn't text her that. But this morning she text me :

"Hey dude you still mad bro"

I ignored it then she text again

"Listen bro I never lead you on or anything, I think our relationship was fun but I never wanted anything long term with you. I know it is sudden to end this relationship, but it is 2012 relationships come and go."

I ignored again then later tonight

"hey if its worth anything, i can tell my girlfriends what a super awesome guy you are and maybe have them meet you and see if they want to date you 🙂"

Sigh my world. I find it hard that none of you guys are ever in my situation. But I am trying my best to ignore her. Once school starts I have to avoid that other girl who rejected and this one also and its gonna be hard!
 
I guess girls dont like guys playing League of Legends
 
Immuno...please. As a former nice guy, delete her number asap and keep it pushing as I said in your previous thread. You really need to quit inviting these pity parties on SDN.
 
I didn't text her that. But this morning she text me :

"Hey dude you still mad bro"

I ignored it then she text again

"Listen bro I never lead you on or anything, I think our relationship was fun but I never wanted anything long term with you. I know it is sudden to end this relationship, but it is 2012 relationships come and go."

I ignored again then later tonight

"hey if its worth anything, i can tell my girlfriends what a super awesome guy you are and maybe have them meet you and see if they want to date you 🙂"

Sigh my world. I find it hard that none of you guys are ever in my situation. But I am trying my best to ignore her. Once school starts I have to avoid that other girl who rejected and this one also and its gonna be hard!

post screenshots of the text convo so we know ur not frauding

srsly tho, txt her what i said
 
Is it common for young Asian women to call guys "bro?"
 
leave everything where it stands and hit that over and over again haha.
 
in all seriousness, one of the above posters is correct. Why do you want to be closely affiliated with someone that sleeps around with someone like she did? She's not worth your time at all. Let her go and it's for the best. I'm sure you can do better.
 
Immuno could seriously benefit from a knowing a guy like Dane Cook's character in My Best Friend's Girl.

Man you need help baaaad. It's like you invented the friend zone.
 
Reminds me of that film with the fat guy who was friend zoned by a cheerleader. He ends up becoming sexy and successful and she becomes a total loser and ends up falling for him, but his feelings are no longer for her.

Good comedy. Forgot the name.
 
Reminds me of that film with the fat guy who was friend zoned by a cheerleader. He ends up becoming sexy and successful and she becomes a total loser and ends up falling for him, but his feelings are no longer for her.

Good comedy. Forgot the name.

Pretty sure you're thinking of Just Friends. Funny stuff.
 
Reminds me of that film with the fat guy who was friend zoned by a cheerleader. He ends up becoming sexy and successful and she becomes a total loser and ends up falling for him, but his feelings are no longer for her.

Good comedy. Forgot the name.

Sounds like "Just Friends" with Ryan Reynolds.
 
Normally this wouldn't even be a problem because you can tell your friends "Turns out, she was crazy!"

But in this case....
 
I guess girls dont like guys playing League of Legends
It's because he plays Twitch. Even after the stealth remake, he's not a good character. Chicks can tell. Varus is free this week, check him out if you want to be ranged AD carry. Women will flock to you.




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