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Hi Everyone,
I am knew to this forum and was wondering if you could give some input? I have checked out some of the other posts about this issue but thought I would still post my thoughts.
I am currently 22 and happily married. I am an RN and work in a hospital setting. I enjoy nursing, but really want to be a doctor (have my whole life!). Nursing was a great first, clinical degree and now I am ready to do something more.
I want the autonomy that medicine provides. Being an NP just isn't the same. Would it be suffiencent? I am sure. Just not so sure if it would be as fufilling Here is where I am at, and my options. I am planning on going to medical school in Australia or New Zealand (NZ) (I am citiizen of NZ, and get a much reduced cost of tution). The program in Australia is 4 years, in NZ it is 6. All of my family and friends live in NZ so obviously that would be the better choice for having a support system.
Here is what I am worried about - I will be 24 starting the program, so (in NZ) I will be 30 finishing. Then 34 by the time I am done with residency. I really want to have children, but don't really want to do that during school (I think that would emotionally traumatize my children!!!). Is 34 too old to start having children?!?!?!
I would just work part time after that so I could enjoy spending time with my children. Some of my friends are like, ' whats the point of doing all that training to work PT?". The point is that once my children are older I already have my education done and then can just enjoy working.
Here are my thoughts though....if I knew I would be just as happy being a Nurse Practitioner as I would a doctor, then I would totally do it. It takes less time (we could have children sooner), its more flexible and requires very little on call time. I could do it in midwifery, and be able to deliver babies, which is my dream.
but how do I know I will feel that way? Becoming a doctor gives you this amazing breadth of knowledge that NP school could never provide. and its what i have always wanted
Is it possible to have children during med school/residency and have them be normally functioning later in life?
How do you know you are making the right decision? do you take the safer route (which for me would be NP because of the reasons above), or do you take the riskier route and just trust it will work out?
I just don't want to regret being a doctor, but I don't want look back 15 years from now and think, "gee, I could have been an NP and been just as fulfilled".
I am knew to this forum and was wondering if you could give some input? I have checked out some of the other posts about this issue but thought I would still post my thoughts.
I am currently 22 and happily married. I am an RN and work in a hospital setting. I enjoy nursing, but really want to be a doctor (have my whole life!). Nursing was a great first, clinical degree and now I am ready to do something more.
I want the autonomy that medicine provides. Being an NP just isn't the same. Would it be suffiencent? I am sure. Just not so sure if it would be as fufilling Here is where I am at, and my options. I am planning on going to medical school in Australia or New Zealand (NZ) (I am citiizen of NZ, and get a much reduced cost of tution). The program in Australia is 4 years, in NZ it is 6. All of my family and friends live in NZ so obviously that would be the better choice for having a support system.
Here is what I am worried about - I will be 24 starting the program, so (in NZ) I will be 30 finishing. Then 34 by the time I am done with residency. I really want to have children, but don't really want to do that during school (I think that would emotionally traumatize my children!!!). Is 34 too old to start having children?!?!?!
I would just work part time after that so I could enjoy spending time with my children. Some of my friends are like, ' whats the point of doing all that training to work PT?". The point is that once my children are older I already have my education done and then can just enjoy working.
Here are my thoughts though....if I knew I would be just as happy being a Nurse Practitioner as I would a doctor, then I would totally do it. It takes less time (we could have children sooner), its more flexible and requires very little on call time. I could do it in midwifery, and be able to deliver babies, which is my dream.
but how do I know I will feel that way? Becoming a doctor gives you this amazing breadth of knowledge that NP school could never provide. and its what i have always wanted
Is it possible to have children during med school/residency and have them be normally functioning later in life?
How do you know you are making the right decision? do you take the safer route (which for me would be NP because of the reasons above), or do you take the riskier route and just trust it will work out?
I just don't want to regret being a doctor, but I don't want look back 15 years from now and think, "gee, I could have been an NP and been just as fulfilled".