By your posts I assume you are at least 45 years old, maybe 50.
What happened to that kid in college is quite unfortunate but was also in the last century.
I agree that historically through the 20th century, both minorities and queer folk were marginalized. Completely wrong.
But this is the 21st century. You need to adjust to the reality of this modern century.
In 2024, A gay person and particularly a gay minority has a far far far better chance of being handed undeserved elite college acceptances, undeserved scholarships based solely on race or sex, and undeserved ultra competitive jobs compared to straight white or Asian person, particularly a straight white or Asian male.
Exceptions still exist, but on average it is far easier in 2024 in the United States to be a minority and/or queer than to be a straight white male.
So perhaps rational people might feel an entire black history month and an entire pride month is overkill in the 21st century compared to a single day, Memorial Day, that commemorates true Americans that fought and died for this country-