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I am a MS2 interested in a competitive surgical specialty. I've been engaged in research and making connections in this specialty since I started med school. Whenever, I mention I want to do it, people tell me "Oh I once considered something surgical until I did my surgical clerkship and realized I don't want to do this for the rest of my life" and I've noticed a lot of people choosing specialties with lifestyle in mind.
I hold no judgment against choosing a specialty with lifestyle in mind. It's important. I'm interested in my specialty or something surgical because I've interviewed a lot of patients and realized quickly that I don't think I can do a specialty where all I do is interview patients as it gets boring for me so I think I want to do something with a mix of clinical and surgery.
However, I'm scared. What if I end up being miserable in my specialty because the life is too difficult. (Waking up at 4 AM or long hours) People also tell me they choose lifestyle because they want to make sure they have time for family outside of the hospital. I'm someone who's never really thought about that. My thought process is to find a career/specialty I love and everything will fall in place. I'm also single so I'm not sure if I'll ever be lucky enough to find that special someone. I do want a family but I don't know if this is something I should consider when choosing a specialty. Hence, I've always prioritized my interest in the specialty. But I wonder if I should leverage lifestyle more into my thought process.
I hold no judgment against choosing a specialty with lifestyle in mind. It's important. I'm interested in my specialty or something surgical because I've interviewed a lot of patients and realized quickly that I don't think I can do a specialty where all I do is interview patients as it gets boring for me so I think I want to do something with a mix of clinical and surgery.
However, I'm scared. What if I end up being miserable in my specialty because the life is too difficult. (Waking up at 4 AM or long hours) People also tell me they choose lifestyle because they want to make sure they have time for family outside of the hospital. I'm someone who's never really thought about that. My thought process is to find a career/specialty I love and everything will fall in place. I'm also single so I'm not sure if I'll ever be lucky enough to find that special someone. I do want a family but I don't know if this is something I should consider when choosing a specialty. Hence, I've always prioritized my interest in the specialty. But I wonder if I should leverage lifestyle more into my thought process.