I think this forms the crux of the question. You clearly turned out OK, but a lot of kids in that kind of situation end up in a lot of trouble.
Maybe it's just the backwards Midwestern hick in me, but there are times when teenagers need parental discipline more than they need to rap with a 50-year-old best friend. Finding diverted OxyContin in your daughter's backpack is one of those times.
Nope - this is the crux of this question for you as a PARENT - not for us as PHARMACISTS. One of our roles is education - not just identification or dispensing. Sorry, I don't see how talking openly with parents about drug abuse is "rapping" - but well - heh, I'm not in the midwest. Perhaps you don't talk openly about that stuff.
Let me put it to you in a "dental sense" since I've lived with that most of my life....
Lets take a pt you've seen for 2-3 years....she's had her wisdom teeth extracted as a teenager & had orthodontics in the 70's...now she has a lower second molar which needs a post & core & crown. Her molars are tipping forward & due to the "older" model of ortho done in those days, her teeth are migrating & tipping lingually. But, she's been doing well with her perio & she seems dedicated to maintaining her dental health since she's had insurance & has been seeing you.
Now...she's got some issues with her first molar & has already had a the second bicuspid pulled at some drill & fill & pull place a couple of years ago (prior to insurance).
She wants this one pulled too. But...you know if you pull that tooth - which you very might likely retain & it looks on x-ray that she might very well lose that first molar....wouldn't you want to be her educator & explain why she really needs to keep that tooth - to help support a bridge which might be down the road????
Well...our role is not just a lick & stick just as yours is not to drill, fill & pull. Sometimes, the best you can do for the pt is to educate them....give them some time to think it over....'cause once the tooth is gone, if she didn't want a p&c & crown she sure won't go for an implant. Likewise with us....we know - once Dad starts to yell, ground, rant - the daughter's behavior is unlikely to change (look up the studies on drug abuse & how well different approaches work) & she's much more likely to be secretive, her drug abuse will be more likely to escalate & her potential morbidities increase dramatically.
Bah - no changing midwestern attitudes toward "parental discipline" ... make it easy for yourself - go online & ID the drug yourself then you can rant all you want to your 16 yo & not involve any pharmacists who want to educate you. What do we know about drugs, drug abuse or being parents for that matter????
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Likewise...your pt may just go down the road to have the tooth pulled because you didn't want to take the time to educate?????
See......just because the pt wants something - that may not be what we give them - its our choice (some of us might say our responsibility,but I fear that is a small minority
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