First year medical student here. I just wanted to know how others mentally handle failure on exams. With my exam grade, I am at-risk of failing the whole course. Just on here to receive some encouragement from others who have been in a similar situation. How do you psyche yourself up for the next exam when the situation seems a little dismal? I want to see light at the end of the tunnel....
The first person that you need to have a long and objective chat with is the Course Coordinator for the course that you are in danger of failing. Most of the time, making an appointment and going over your exams with the Course Coordinator can give you some insight into what you need to work on for the next exam so that you can pull yourself up.
The next thing that you want to check out is any Peer Tutoring services that your school may have. Peer tutors generally have great insight into the best methods of preparing for tests and courses. Utilize their services if they are available.
Finally, figure out what happens if you do fail the course. Generally, if it's one course, you can remediate it in the summer and keep moving forward. If you are in danger of failing out of medical school entirely, you may need to get some help from the Dean of Students. Often you can work something out so that you don't wind up having to withdraw from school.
Most medical students fail (or do poorly) in class because something (illness, family demands, stress, being overwhelmed) gets in the way of them being able to devote their full time and energy to what the course needs. If this is you (and likely it is), then you need to get some strategies for getting things under control.
Again, your Dean of Students is a good starting point because this person has many options/resources at their disposal. Some may be of great help to you but you won't know unless you ask.
Enlist the help of everyone that you can find. You are not paying all of that tuition money for nothing. Utilized every service that your school can make available to you even if it means meeting weekly with the Professor/Dean or anyone else who can help you. Not to ask for help when you need it does not show good judgment. Waiting until it is too late, makes getting the help that you need more difficult.
It's not that far into the semester so mobilize, organize and get what you need. If it takes failure on an exam for you to learn how to mobilize the resources that you need for success then that failure was a great learning experience.
Failing an exam (or even one course) is not that much of a deal as long as you take action and fight for your career. Don't beat up on yourself because there isn't much difference between you and the person who received honors on that exam. Take a deep breath and get busy because your future patients are going to need you and you can't stop here.
I was one of those Peer Tutors when I was a medical student and I was always amazed at how much information a person who failed an exam actually knew. I usually needed to help them organize that information and they were on their way. Get whatever help you need because I am sure that you don't need very much to turn this around.