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inspired by the great thread on bull**** consults ...

how do you guys handle bs while keeping your cool? what do you allow yourself to do to vent your anger?

for example, how much do you let your anger show when you get a crappy consult without doing something deemed 'unprofessional?'

i've wondered about this a lot because i'm concerned about how i'm going to handle on-the-job frustration with the sleep deprivation and stress ... on one hand i don't want to be a push-over while on the other hand i don't want to get pissed off and do something that 1) isn't really helping the situation; and 2) might lead to 'blowback.'

i imagine different people have different methods. i'd be interested to hear what helps from people further down the road...
 
inspired by the great thread on bull**** consults ...

how do you guys handle bs while keeping your cool? what do you allow yourself to do to vent your anger?

for example, how much do you let your anger show when you get a crappy consult without doing something deemed 'unprofessional?'

i've wondered about this a lot because i'm concerned about how i'm going to handle on-the-job frustration with the sleep deprivation and stress ... on one hand i don't want to be a push-over while on the other hand i don't want to get pissed off and do something that 1) isn't really helping the situation; and 2) might lead to 'blowback.'

i imagine different people have different methods. i'd be interested to hear what helps from people further down the road...
Honestly I've found that as a junior resident there isn't a whole lot you can do. You have to be prepared to each a **** sandwich multiple times per day, and there is no shortage of people trying to feed it to you. It just comes with the territory.

There's no real wisdom in dealing with this stuff. Venting to other residents, venting to friends, letting people know of your displeasure with your tone of voice... not many options outside of that. You just have to deal with it and control yourself the best you can, because you have too much to lose, no matter how bad it gets. Also, when it gets really bad, it helps to remember that it's about the patient. At minimum you can help a patient, even if they are better treated by medicine, ortho, neurosurgery, OB, IR, gastroenterology, or whoever else.

My only advice is to be aware of venting in front of medical students, who are very impressionable. You don't want to train future doctors to call internists fleas or crap like that. Also, don't be the surgical stereotype that loses his temper all the time. It's hard to respect people like that. Being a surgeon doesn't give you a license to be a dick.
 
as a pGY-1,2 you just suck it up as see all the crap
as you transition to an upper level and have more experience and knowledge and better understanding of your attendings level of dealing with crap, you can push back some of it, just try not to be rude, which can be hard at 3am
 
It's never easy, but I have a few thoughts that help.

1. Likely as a surgical sub specialist I will inadvertently call a crap consult. My attendings want us to call cardiology for new onset A-fib. Can I manage that? Sure I can, but that's just our preference. If you dish them out, then you've gotta be willing to take them.

2. As you get further into your chosen field you realize that things you take as straightforward and routine aren't really that easy, it's just that you do them all the time. It may be REALLY obvious to you, but must not be to everyone, especially our friends in broad specialties like IM or FP, where they are supposed to know a little about a lot.

3. It's really all about the patient. We all have some degree of ego, sense of fair play, etc. But really if someone asks for your help then just humor them and tell yourself that the patient needs your expertise, because clearly the primary team can't manage this for themselves. It's an arrogant way to think of it, but helps make it feel less like a dump. Just remember to never take out any ill feelings on the patient. They are merely stuck in the middle of what can be a silly game between specialties.


Good luck with this. If you treat consultants with respect and honesty they'll usually do the same for you.
 
1. Likely as a surgical sub specialist I will inadvertently call a crap consult. My attendings want us to call cardiology for new onset A-fib. Can I manage that? Sure I can, but that's just our preference. If you dish them out, then you've gotta be willing to take them.

I think we also have to recognize the CYA aspect as an attending (something I didn't appreciate until recently).

Malpractice attorneys will tell you that you can always be faulted for failure to consult if there is any complication.

For example, while reviewing a case for another surgeon, I noted that the claim was made that the general surgeon should have consulted a "wound care specialist" for a chronic post-operative wound. Hmmm...I thought surgeons were "wound care specialists". The plaintiff's attorney is claiming otherwise. I spoke with my attorney who verified such thought patterns and advised me, should I ever injury the axillary vein, I need to intraoperatively consult a vascular surgeon for repair, even though I know how, I need to consult IM to medically manage my inpatients, etc. I spoke with a friend's husband who does medmal and he agreed.

So yes, the consult may seem to be BS, but in the legal climate we have, if and when patients have unexpected (or sometimes even possible) outcomes and sue, their attorney will grasp at any straw they can to prove your medical mismanagement.

Finally, in some settings, consults become a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours."
 
My only advice is to be aware of venting in front of medical students, who are very impressionable. You don't want to train future doctors to call internists fleas or crap like that. Also, don't be the surgical stereotype that loses his temper all the time. It's hard to respect people like that. Being a surgeon doesn't give you a license to be a dick.

Agree 100%. I actually gave a grand rounds a few weeks ago on this topic.
 
It's never easy, but I have a few thoughts that help.

1. Likely as a surgical sub specialist I will inadvertently call a crap consult. My attendings want us to call cardiology for new onset A-fib. Can I manage that? Sure I can, but that's just our preference. .

this i understand as those patients are on coumadin and need someone to manage their INR, cardiologist usually have a good RN that runs a clinic in their office, also if they have afib, they prob have other underlying cardiac disease and will need one soon anyway, good to have the followup set up then, also are you really going to cardiovert someone yourself or know when/when not to?

I think we also have to recognize the CYA aspect as an attending (something I didn't appreciate until recently).

Malpractice attorneys will tell you that you can always be faulted for failure to consult if there is any complication.

For example, while reviewing a case for another surgeon, I noted that the claim was made that the general surgeon should have consulted a "wound care specialist" for a chronic post-operative wound. Hmmm...I thought surgeons were "wound care specialists". The plaintiff's attorney is claiming otherwise. I spoke with my attorney who verified such thought patterns and advised me, should I ever injury the axillary vein, I need to intraoperatively consult a vascular surgeon for repair, even though I know how, I need to consult IM to medically manage my inpatients, etc. I spoke with a friend's husband who does medmal and he agreed.

So yes, the consult may seem to be BS, but in the legal climate we have, if and when patients have unexpected (or sometimes even possible) outcomes and sue, their attorney will grasp at any straw they can to prove your medical mismanagement.

Finally, in some settings, consults become a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours."

wow , do you really consult IM on everyone one of your inpatients?
Do you really consult vascular on an axillary vein injury?
 
inspired by the great thread on bull**** consults ...

how do you guys handle bs while keeping your cool? what do you allow yourself to do to vent your anger?

for example, how much do you let your anger show when you get a crappy consult without doing something deemed 'unprofessional?'

i've wondered about this a lot because i'm concerned about how i'm going to handle on-the-job frustration with the sleep deprivation and stress ... on one hand i don't want to be a push-over while on the other hand i don't want to get pissed off and do something that 1) isn't really helping the situation; and 2) might lead to 'blowback.'

i imagine different people have different methods. i'd be interested to hear what helps from people further down the road...

I have a low anger threshold. I've yelled, I swear a lot, I've thrown things at people. This has resulted in MANY meetings for me. I'm not sure if Im getting better or I just have to deal with it less as I move up the ladder. Needless to say this is the wrong (but a very efficient) way to deal with things. The one thing I'll say to all the "just deal with it" advise you've gotten so far is that pushing back early will lower the BS you deal with. People will go through a little extra trouble w/ workup or delay bs consults if they know they'll have to deal with your anger...they'll do whats easier for them. If you let bs consults go it becomes very easy to call you.

But...make sure you're well liked in your own dept. or your outburst could be used as a reason to get rid of you. Its a fine line to walk.
 
I should have clarified my A fib comment. I am happy to try lopressor and diltiazem drip to see if patients rate control and return to normal sinus. If that doesn't work, I would certainly call cardiology. My point was our staff wants us to call them right off for management, before it has become more complicated (as you mentioned, requiring cardioversion, coumadin,etc).
 
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I've thrown things at people.

If you are serious, you are absolutely right that it is wrong. If it's not OK when you're a child, and are taught not to do it when you are 3 years old, it's incomprehensible how someone highly motivated and highly trained - educated beyond postgraduate - would do that. Throwing things at people is a crime - battery - and, if you injure someone, even if it's an abrasion, you could be charged with assault, aggravated assault, criminal mischief, depraved indifference, or maybe some other things.

Think of it this way - if it's in your house, and your wife has a contusion, in some states, police will arrest you (over her objections) for domestic abuse. Just because you're in the hospital does not make it acceptable, and, if it has happened more than once, then there is a serious breakdown - serious - at your shop.

We talked about this on another forum here on SDN, relating to patients.
 
dynx isn't wrong at all. And that's all I'm going to say about the subject. I PM'ed him about it.

P.S. I respect dynx a lot more than the rest of you fake-os who are so insecure that you'd never admit that you were less than perfect and lecture people about how to act professionally. The way attendings talk, you'd think they were all these professional people and yet about 95% of them could jump off a cliff and I could care less.
 
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If you are serious, you are absolutely right that it is wrong. If it's not OK when you're a child, and are taught not to do it when you are 3 years old, it's incomprehensible how someone highly motivated and highly trained - educated beyond postgraduate - would do that. Throwing things at people is a crime - battery - and, if you injure someone, even if it's an abrasion, you could be charged with assault, aggravated assault, criminal mischief, depraved indifference, or maybe some other things.

Think of it this way - if it's in your house, and your wife has a contusion, in some states, police will arrest you (over her objections) for domestic abuse. Just because you're in the hospital does not make it acceptable, and, if it has happened more than once, then there is a serious breakdown - serious - at your shop.

We talked about this on another forum here on SDN, relating to patients.

I agree with Apollyon. There is a growing movement to correct "the disruptive physician". A consistent pattern of angry outbursts (even when justified) can quickly become the foundation for one to lose privileges at a hospital and can jeopardize a medical license.

I understand the angry outbursts. When you're being tortured with bull$hit consults, it's quite easy to vocalize your anger. When you're comfortable vocalizing your anger, it's easy to justify getting physical. Don't do it. I've seen two different physicians get canned for that kind of behavior -- one an attending surgeon and one a resident.

If you have that much difficulty managing your anger, get help. You love your job too much to lose it over something stupid like this.
 
wow , do you really consult IM on everyone one of your inpatients?

No, but I've been advised to.

Do you really consult vascular on an axillary vein injury?

No, since I haven't had one of these *yet*.

However, I think you misunderstood my point. The point is that, two separate malpractice attorneys and the plaintiff's attorney in the case I was reviewing both claimed that if you don't consult for such things, you can be charged with practicing outside of the scope of your practice, and if the patient has a complication, you can be liable for it.

While we all did vascular and managed medical problems during residency, it would be very easy for a plaintiff's attorney to claim that you had not done so in a long time, it was not your day to day practice and that the patient would have been better served with a vascular surgeon/cardiologist/internist/etc.

I agree its ridiculous, but I'm telling you this stuff is *out there*.
 
I agree with Apollyon. There is a growing movement to correct "the disruptive physician". A consistent pattern of angry outbursts (even when justified) can quickly become the foundation for one to lose privileges at a hospital and can jeopardize a medical license.

I understand the angry outbursts. When you're being tortured with bull$hit consults, it's quite easy to vocalize your anger. When you're comfortable vocalizing your anger, it's easy to justify getting physical. Don't do it. I've seen two different physicians get canned for that kind of behavior -- one an attending surgeon and one a resident.

If you have that much difficulty managing your anger, get help. You love your job too much to lose it over something stupid like this.

I agree, throwing things = bad idea. And said as much in my original post.

The points I wanted to make are:
1. Sometimes people aren't just able to grin-and-bear it. And if the OP is one of those people he should be aware that small outburst early may save him frustration and bigger outburst later on. Don't try to "bottle it up" because everything is supposed to be sunshine and rainbows.
2. Make sure you're well liked in your dept. because these things can be delt with one of two ways. A. They don't like you and use it as a reason to get rid of/punish you. or B. They like you and laugh it off.
 
2. Make sure you're well liked in your dept. because these things can be delt with one of two ways. A. They don't like you and use it as a reason to get rid of/punish you. or B. They like you and laugh it off.

That behavior may fly in an academic hospital, but it would bury you pretty quick in a community/private practice setting. If the ER docs and internists think you're an a-hole, they simply won't use you, and your consults will dry up pretty quick.

Still, I'm not sure that you're totally to blame. I'm sure you've seen your senior residents and attendings acting like whiney kids, and you've learned that this behavior is acceptable.

Still, I'd curb it before you get out into practice, or you'll have some serious problems. Or, if you go into academics, you'll keep the cycle of antagonism alive by teaching the next generation of residents and students your bad behavior.
 
Most attendings save their whiny outbursts and temper tantrums for people who cannot retaliate, which means their residents. They're so sweet to other attendings, even ones they dislike, that you'd almost think they were going to go behind the hospital and grope each other lustfully for a few hours.
 
Most attendings save their whiny outbursts and temper tantrums for people who cannot retaliate, which means their residents. They're so sweet to other attendings, even ones they dislike, that you'd almost think they were going to go behind the hospital and grope each other lustfully for a few hours.

Oh man, you don't know how on target you are with this. I've said many times where I was a resident, but I shall withhold that here, so as to try to minimize "outing" someone. When I was a resident off-service, there was one attending that would kiss such ass to non-surgical attendings I couldn't believe it - he would be so smarmy and obsequious, and sycophantic, that it was remarkable, as he was a total ******* - complete, unadulterated, and unvarnished - to residents - surgical and not, across the board (I even had another attending (from another service) back me up one post-call morning when he tried to rip me a new one - and that is not exaggerating in any way). One day, though, I saw him masterfully place a chest tube on a patient in a very specific and delicate clinical situation, and he was not a dick while doing it, which showed me the whole thing was an act.
 
I agree, throwing things = bad idea. And said as much in my original post.

The points I wanted to make are:
1. Sometimes people aren't just able to grin-and-bear it. And if the OP is one of those people he should be aware that small outburst early may save him frustration and bigger outburst later on. Don't try to "bottle it up" because everything is supposed to be sunshine and rainbows.
2. Make sure you're well liked in your dept. because these things can be delt with one of two ways. A. They don't like you and use it as a reason to get rid of/punish you. or B. They like you and laugh it off.

Sure, you'll get away with some crap when your bosses like you. As SLUser said, that kind of behavior will KILL a consult stream when you get out into real life. Also, on that bad day when you go over the top and piss off the wrong person, your "likeability" may no longer be a trump card.

Look in any of the medical management journals and newsletters. There are more and more articles about the problems of the "disruptive physician" and the mechanisms for dealing with him/her. Believe me, hospital administrators are less and less willing to face complaints from ancillary staff about being in a difficult work environment.
 
Sure, you'll get away with some crap when your bosses like you. As SLUser said, that kind of behavior will KILL a consult stream when you get out into real life. Also, on that bad day when you go over the top and piss off the wrong person, your "likeability" may no longer be a trump card.

Look in any of the medical management journals and newsletters. There are more and more articles about the problems of the "disruptive physician" and the mechanisms for dealing with him/her. Believe me, hospital administrators are less and less willing to face complaints from ancillary staff about being in a difficult work environment.

Jeez I must have missed the post where the person you're responding too argued in favor of being a "disruptive physician".
Let me simplify for you:
1. Sometimes, in the real world people get upset
2. Its better to get a little upset early rather than let it build up to where you really explode
3. don't throw ****.
4. Make sure your boss likes you
Maybe find me a journal article that refutes any of those points poindexter. See this is why I get upset...simple things seem to confuse people.
 
Hey, I agree with you on points 1, 3, and 4. All are very valid points. Number 2 is the problem (lots of jokes there). Sure, if you're well-liked and you get cranky occasionally, people will think you're post-call or just having a bad day. For the most part, that will be tolerated.

If you establish a pattern of demonstrating your "upset" mood, it will only take a complaint from nursing supervisor X to hospital administrator Y to get your ***** on the fire. While your PD or Chair might think you're hilarious and smart and a really great dude, if the hospital administration comes to them saying, "Dr Dynx seems to have a bit of an attitude problem that could be compromising patient care," there will be consequences. I've seen it happen a couple of times.

Really great, smart, hard-working residents have nearly been fired because they had a history of little blow-ups and Nurse Ratched got sick of it and complained to the right people. Both of the ones that I know had a low-level anger-management problem (not much beyond any resident) and escaped by doing some serious time in hospital-mandated anger management therapy. They were lucky.

Don't be that guy. Don't put yourself in the position where some administrator can keep a file on you for outbursts. Even if you think they're small, in the wrong light those write-ups can paint a very bad picture that is hard to refute.

By the way, my name is Max, not "Poindexter". Remember, your boss might like you, but if he hears enough bad stuff about you, his mind can change really fast.
 
When I get a consult that seems like utter crap, I make a point of talking to the person requesting it and making it clear that I am confused as to what they want. I try to keep the crankiness out of it, but I am not always successful. However, I feel that getting to the bottom of what the hell they were thinking will do one of a few things:

Help me understand that the person consulting me is an idiot or has limited experience/knowledge. This usually is enough to defuse me. I figure I have to rescue the patient from this person.

Identify that the requesting person knows the consult is stupid but is doing it because of legal reasons/the attending made them. This is still annoying, but usually they apologize for having to call which somehow makes me feel better.

Allow me to realize the consult is not appropriate, and after some education sometimes results in the consult being rescinded (hard to think of a good example for this, since this is pretty much staff and institution specific. Best one I can come up with is a request for central line removal by ob gyn for a line placed by anesthesia)

Provide the information that didn't get passed along initially and thus makes the crap consult a legitimate one. This is nice because then you are better prepared when you see the patient, and make better prioritization decisions.


I have a theory that consults are only irritating because we don't get paid any extra for doing it. I don't know what kind of reimbursement you get when the ER calls you for the RLQ pain with no fever or white count that just turns out to be constipated or something, but it seems like even if it isn't a ton it will make me feel better. Don't burst my bubble though. This is the thought I use to try to defuse myself before I talk to the person requesting the stupid consult.
 
Consults are irritating to me not because I have to see the patient, (for free or not), but because of all the BS paperwork that goes with it. A consult requires a consult note, which for me is just an H&P. This then needs to be dictated. I probably will have to put this patient on my rounding list, then write meaningless progress notes either as primary or as the consult service.

I know some people just write quick consult notes, but I feel pressure to write a full note, in case some pencil pusher complains about billing/reimbursement.
 
As I have grown up I have learned from those above me. A consult for an inguinal hernia that has been present for 20 yrs, reducible and not causing any problems, in a guy admitted for some exacerbation of one of his 20 medical problems gets a brief exam (unless I am able to talk the person out of the consult) and a very short note detailing how this is a problem which can be worked up as an outpatient when the patient is medically optimized for surgery. For the hepatic hydrothorax patient if I can't convince them over the phone, My consult consists of a few lines on how chest tubes aren't appropriate, and depending on if I have it handy, an article describing why.

As an intern I would do a full H+P on these folks, but I quickly learned that if I bumped it up to my senior it would save me a lot of work and allow me to get other stuff done faster. I now teach my interns to run things by me first.
 
Really great, smart, hard-working residents have nearly been fired because they had a history of little blow-ups and Nurse Ratched got sick of it and complained to the right people.

Actually, let's "keep it real," since you're so into this subject. The reality is that nurses and attendings are just as bad if not worse than residents. The only two differences are that a) everyone, including administration, is much more apt to look the other way for nurses and attendings and b) nurses and attendings know how to do it and get away with it. Everyone here, repeat EVERYONE HERE, knows at least one nurse who everyone at the hospital knows is some battleaxe who enjoys bullying other nurses and residents and also enjoys the reputation that she's a "tough person to deal with." I know one of those on every floor, on every shift, at least. And they get away with it and all the people who go on and on about "corps d'espirit" or "team players" or all the other B.S. just shrug and go, "well, just learn to get along with her, you can't fight every battle." Uh, no, how about you stop turning into some spineless pu**y when it comes to her and come down on her as hard as you come down on some resident who does much less?
 
Actually, let's "keep it real," since you're so into this subject. The reality is that nurses and attendings are just as bad if not worse than residents.

I'm not sure you read Max's post right. I think that he's generally in agreement with you that nurses can suck, hence the Nurse Ratched reference, and is saying that these types are the most likely to burn you when they deem your behavior unacceptable.
 
OK, but point being that everyone talks about "the disruptive physician not being tolerated" and we all get lectured endlessly about how "this will not be tolerated." We can all jump down dynx's throat, but the reality is that we actually do tolerate disruptive and ridiculous behavior all the time. What people really mean, except they don't have the balls to say it, is that residents must accept any behavior towards them and absorb it. That's the long and short of it. I've seen lots of nurses bully interns and shout them down or be condescending. I've also seen the opposite behavior. But the residents get corrected and the nurse will continue on with her "unacceptable" behavior year after year. Same thing with attendings. That's my point. All the rest is B.S. mumbo-jumbo by administrative types.
 
OK, but point being that everyone talks about "the disruptive physician not being tolerated" and we all get lectured endlessly about how "this will not be tolerated." We can all jump down dynx's throat, but the reality is that we actually do tolerate disruptive and ridiculous behavior all the time. What people really mean, except they don't have the balls to say it, is that residents must accept any behavior towards them and absorb it. That's the long and short of it. I've seen lots of nurses bully interns and shout them down or be condescending. I've also seen the opposite behavior. But the residents get corrected and the nurse will continue on with her "unacceptable" behavior year after year. Same thing with attendings. That's my point. All the rest is B.S. mumbo-jumbo by administrative types.
I've seen residents report nurses. Even asking them for a complaint form goes a long way to curb this behavior.
 
I can tell you that yelling at nurses (even if it is about things that are legitimate patient care issues) will get your contract not renewed if enough are collected, and administration doesn't like you. Even if you are an excellent surgeon who trains residents well, and who apologizes after things happen. I can also tell you that yelling at nurses/techs (even if its for them doing a thing that last time you yelled at them for not doing) will have no consequences if administration likes you. Even if prefer to do things yourself rather than waiting for a resident, and you spend more time participating in various committees than actually operating.

I haven't really seen what happens if it is residents yelling at other residents (or the student who called the consult) about stupid consults.
 
I've seen residents report nurses. Even asking them for a complaint form goes a long way to curb this behavior.

Sorry, no. I've seen at my institution, and talked with friends at others, that this fails. Not that the nurse may not pull it back for a while. Just that every nurse, as soon as you say "I'm going to report this," starts harrassing the person who reports. They also all start looking for any reason to report the resident. If you even once raise your voice one decibel or are short with them, it's written up as you verbally threatening them and making them scared for their life, to the point where they may perhaps have PTSD. Or it could be you walking onto the floors with a cup of coffee and it'll be reported as a "blatant disregard for institutional policies endangering patients with a spread of infection." In contrast, if a nurse abuses a resident and the resident reports the nurse, that's the end of it. The other residents don't gang up on the nurse and try to harrass her and get her fired.

It's why I consider nurses to be unprofessional. Most nurses these days are essentially just out of high school and they act like it. But then again, like I said, a lot of attendings have had years of post-bacc training and they also act like juveniles.
 
Sorry, no. I've seen at my institution, and talked with friends at others, that this fails. Not that the nurse may not pull it back for a while. Just that every nurse, as soon as you say "I'm going to report this," starts harrassing the person who reports. They also all start looking for any reason to report the resident. If you even once raise your voice one decibel or are short with them, it's written up as you verbally threatening them and making them scared for their life, to the point where they may perhaps have PTSD. Or it could be you walking onto the floors with a cup of coffee and it'll be reported as a "blatant disregard for institutional policies endangering patients with a spread of infection." In contrast, if a nurse abuses a resident and the resident reports the nurse, that's the end of it. The other residents don't gang up on the nurse and try to harrass her and get her fired.

It's why I consider nurses to be unprofessional. Most nurses these days are essentially just out of high school and they act like it. But then again, like I said, a lot of attendings have had years of post-bacc training and they also act like juveniles.
I'm really sorry that the nurses are so unprofessional at your institution. You aren't by chance a resident in NYC? I've really only had good interactions with our nursing and ancillary staff. Now, the VA nurses, that's another story (those were the ones I was referencing in my last comment).
 
OK, but point being that everyone talks about "the disruptive physician not being tolerated" and we all get lectured endlessly about how "this will not be tolerated." We can all jump down dynx's throat, but the reality is that we actually do tolerate disruptive and ridiculous behavior all the time. What people really mean, except they don't have the balls to say it, is that residents must accept any behavior towards them and absorb it. That's the long and short of it. I've seen lots of nurses bully interns and shout them down or be condescending. I've also seen the opposite behavior. But the residents get corrected and the nurse will continue on with her "unacceptable" behavior year after year. Same thing with attendings. That's my point. All the rest is B.S. mumbo-jumbo by administrative types.
😱 I totally know exactly what you mean!

I can totally tell by your bland and vague stories that you're livin' the rough life of a resident.






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Sorry, no. I've seen at my institution, and talked with friends at others, that this fails. Not that the nurse may not pull it back for a while. Just that every nurse, as soon as you say "I'm going to report this," starts harrassing the person who reports. They also all start looking for any reason to report the resident. If you even once raise your voice one decibel or are short with them, it's written up as you verbally threatening them and making them scared for their life, to the point where they may perhaps have PTSD. Or it could be you walking onto the floors with a cup of coffee and it'll be reported as a "blatant disregard for institutional policies endangering patients with a spread of infection." In contrast, if a nurse abuses a resident and the resident reports the nurse, that's the end of it. The other residents don't gang up on the nurse and try to harrass her and get her fired.

It's why I consider nurses to be unprofessional. Most nurses these days are essentially just out of high school and they act like it. But then again, like I said, a lot of attendings have had years of post-bacc training and they also act like juveniles.

I agree. The system is set up for you (the resident) NOT to win. Afterall, you are just a trainee. You are at the program to learn over a limited period of time and then to move on to bigger and better things. That nurse or nurses that you speak of will always be there to harrass the next group of residents, students, etc.

In my experience, this is not a bad thing as it is really an opportunity for you to learn to let things roll off your back and deal with things in a professional manner. Afterall, one day you will be the head of a division or part of a professional practice that will have a reputation to maintain.

The reality of it is that, in any hospital, at any program (university vs. community), at any given time, there is ample opportunity to get involved with drama. But why? why waste your valuable time and energy dealing with crap? You only have 80 hrs a week now (at most places at least) to learn surgery. Why use that precious time to get angry and involved with a nurse or another resident over something that will end up getting YOU in trouble more?

Never forget, as a resident, you are a lot easier to replace than any nurse will be. There are plenty of US-trained people as smart, good-looking, charming, accomplished, and yes dynx, as likable as you, just waiting for your precious spot. Your administration and faculty will equally love them, especially if they dont have to waste their time over your latest bull**** incident.

Nurses, well last time I checked, they were shipping them in from overseas all around the country due to severe shortage.

Instead of wasting precious time over crap and endangering your spot, always keep it about the patient and your education, and pick your battles carefully.

There is nothing wrong with professional discussion of a questionable consult with the consultant or even a one on one private discussion with a nurse who is rude. These work a lot better than throwing things or attempting to write up people with your limited time.

Good luck.
 
Nurses, well last time I checked, they were shipping them in from overseas all around the country due to severe shortage.

Right, and that's part of the point. In the General Residency area, we were discussing this indirectly. I mean, nursing and residency are both manipulated professions. Nurses can get paid six figures and work about three days a week on average after only two years of training (plus putting in years of time, to be fair). And yet there's a shortage because it's unionized that way. They're "restricted" to working three days a week. Anything more and they get paid so much money it would make a lawyer blush, which is a big incentive for the hospital not to do overtime. As a result, we have a shortage of nurses even though every patient you have is related to a nurse in some way (ever notice that?).

Residents, same thing. The way programs are set up, a program can kick out a resident any time it wants for any reason and get a replacement literally that same day. And a resident really has no choice, due to the debt load he incurs in med school. That's the key, really. I assure you that if you made it feasible for residents to walk away from residency with a reasonable debt load, a sizeable minority (e.g., 15%) would immediately do so. That would cripple residencies and, therefore, hospitals, which is why the situation is kept that way.

I know that's the way it is, but I'm merely pointing out the facts. Because, no offense, you're part of the problem. Rather than say "this is wrong, we should fix it," you're one of the people who say "just accept it, get the heck out of there, let the system continue as it is, and be glad you got out. Let the suckers after you take it." Most people are like that, actually, which is the problem.
 
There are plenty of US-trained people as smart, good-looking, charming, accomplished, and yes dynx, as likable as you, just waiting for your precious spot.

I'm tall too. You forgot tall. Just saying.

and funny.
 
I know that's the way it is, but I'm merely pointing out the facts. Because, no offense, you're part of the problem. Rather than say "this is wrong, we should fix it," you're one of the people who say "just accept it, get the heck out of there, let the system continue as it is, and be glad you got out. Let the suckers after you take it." Most people are like that, actually, which is the problem.

Indeed. Too many people just shake in thier boots at the thought of losing thier spot. We call those people losers.
Go ahead fire me. Please. For christs sake I'm great at what I do. I'll find another spot be a great surgeon and another program will get the honor of saying I trained there so by all means...fire away.
Hasn't happened.
So, in summary: I've tried to be nice about this but let me break down the real story.
*if you suck, keep your mouth shut like the rest of the people in this thread because you can be replaced. If you can't be replaced (and you're tall), pretty much do what you want*
the end.
 
Right, and that's part of the point. In the General Residency area, we were discussing this indirectly. I mean, nursing and residency are both manipulated professions. Nurses can get paid six figures and work about three days a week on average after only two years of training (plus putting in years of time, to be fair). And yet there's a shortage because it's unionized that way. They're "restricted" to working three days a week. Anything more and they get paid so much money it would make a lawyer blush, which is a big incentive for the hospital not to do overtime. As a result, we have a shortage of nurses even though every patient you have is related to a nurse in some way (ever notice that?).

However you want to define it, there is a nursing shortage, whether it is by number or by hours. Residents on the other hand are much more numerous than available spots both in numbers and in hours.

[/QUOTE] Residents, same thing. The way programs are set up, a program can kick out a resident any time it wants for any reason and get a replacement literally that same day. And a resident really has no choice, due to the debt load he incurs in med school. That's the key, really. I assure you that if you made it feasible for residents to walk away from residency with a reasonable debt load, a sizeable minority (e.g., 15%) would immediately do so. That would cripple residencies and, therefore, hospitals, which is why the situation is kept that way.[/QUOTE]

Well, residents NOT same thing. Residents are STUDENTS who are still training in their profession and do not have many carreer options if they were to drop out of residency and try to practice medicine. They have not just chosen a job but a career that they love. It is not merely their debt, but also their entire profession that holds them hostage for many years. So there is no way you can say what percentage of people would just walk away if they had no debt because the ties and bonds are deeper than just financial. Remember, we are not nurses.

Even if your arguement was true, I dont think hospitals would have much problem replacing residents that "walked away" by all those that don't match yearly and are desparately waiting to get the spot.

[/QUOTE]I know that's the way it is, but I'm merely pointing out the facts. Because, no offense, you're part of the problem. Rather than say "this is wrong, we should fix it," you're one of the people who say "just accept it, get the heck out of there, let the system continue as it is, and be glad you got out. Let the suckers after you take it." Most people are like that, actually, which is the problem.[/QUOTE]

I am not offended. I know what you are pointing out and what your intention is here. I do disagree about me being part of the problem. I am just another resident who has faced this problem as other residents have and simply chosen a different way to deal with it. It may not be the same way you (if you are a resident) deal with it. But I assure you, it works better than yelling and throwing things.

As trainees, we are simply in no position to always get respect, avoid bad consults, have attendings talk nice to us, hug us, and respect us all the time, get paid well, work good hours, have every nurse fired as soon as they look at us in a bad way, etc etc etc. We are trying to complete our training in an imperfect system, that while depends on all residents to run, is much bigger and powerful than each of us or most of us put together. And while this is sad, wrong, unfair, etc., it is reality. As lovey dovey as co-residents maybe in the lounge with you, they will never be willing to "unionize" with you and "walk away" or not come to work over something idealistic. Again, maybe not right, but reality.

So while I understand what you are saying, I am telling the OP of a realistic way to deal with a problem that will only become bigger and more hurtful with idealism.
 
I'm tall too. You forgot tall. Just saying.

and funny.

Well, after reading all your posts, I will give you tall and funny, but I will definitely take back smart.
 
Even if your arguement was true, I dont think hospitals would have much problem replacing residents that "walked away" by all those that don't match yearly and are desparately waiting to get the spot.

Depends. In the most literal sense for competitive fields it would be easy to find a warm body to fill the job. But programs don't want warm bodies, they want the desired applicants. Firing a resident or two these days is a good way to ensure they don't get that. The days of "pyramidal programs" are over, especially with the rise of the internet allowing dissemination of rumors about residents who got the shaft.

Across specialties, when my classmates looked at programs if they'd fired any residents most of us considered it a huge negative, sometimes a "program falls off my rank list" negative. It's a lot easier for a program to find a replacement nurse than repair a reputation for being a place that could prematurely end your career. It's far from a guarantee of safety (the entrenched bureaucracy works against you) but at least it's a little bit of leverage on your side.
 
very interesting posts, thanks.

i'm going to have to tape a picture of my girlfriend and future beach house on the door, so i can see the light at the end of the tunnel before i leave for work each day...

_________

this is an old joke. sorry if everyone's already heard it:

what's the difference between a VA nurse and a bullet (or, from what i'm hearing, an NYC nurse and a bullet)?

a bullet draws blood
a bullet just kills one person, usually
a bullet can be fired
 
Go ahead fire me. Please. For christs sake I'm great at what I do. I'll find another spot be a great surgeon and another program will get the honor of saying I trained there so by all means...fire away.
Hasn't happened.

:laugh:

I know you are mostly being facetious, but the problem is that these delusions of grandeur are extremely common among surgical residents, regardless of their actual skill set.

Not many people think that they are average, let alone below average.

It may seem to you like you are the strong one whose willing to stand up to nurses, but it seems to me that you are the delusional one who is unwilling to correct severe personality issues, instead relying on your false sense of uniqueness and raw talent.

If Blade was still around, he'd find the article on Generation Y and post it here.


*if you suck, keep your mouth shut like the rest of the people in this thread because you can be replaced. If you can't be replaced (and you're tall), pretty much do what you want*
the end.

Talk about breeding bad behavior.....this isn't your fault, IMHO. It seems like you're simply a product of the environment that creates prima donnas out of most surgeons. It's this behavior from the higher ups that helped develop crappy nurse attitudes to begin with. They get treated horribly by the attending, and practice classic displacement by taking it out on the resident.



Dynx, I love your posts, so I hope you don't think I'm attacking you. I'm just sort of amused by your online caricature....I've just met so many residents and attendings who are really like that, and their lack of self-awareness is always baffling.

This is why I love SDN so much.
 
Are you sure its a caricature?

He, because he's a rebel, attacks me in the Gen Res forum, for explaining to wine is good (a clear reincarnate user if there ever was one), why there are rules on SDN.

Boo rules. 🙄
 
Whatever happened to him, anyway?

The Man at his program wasn't happy with his posting here and some pressure was put on. If he was bashing them or revealing private info I could understand. It's frustrating that programs try to quash info as our resources are thin. Really ridiculous as IIRC he was almost always thoughtful, honest and never derogatory. He is missed.

Well, there was one less than flattering comment about Gupta. :ninja:
 
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The Man at his program wasn't happy with his posting here and some pressure was put on. If he was bashing them or revealing private info I could understand. It's frustrating that programs try to quash info as our resources are thin. Really ridiculous as IIRC he was almost always thoughtful, honest and never derogatory. He is missed.

Well, there was one less than flattering comment about Gupta. :ninja:
"The Man".. he's everywhere! 😀
 
The Man at his program wasn't happy with his posting here and some pressure was put on.

So basically you're saying that his Program Director has a small penis and is a giant douche. I see.
 
The Man at his program wasn't happy with his posting here and some pressure was put on. If he was bashing them or revealing private info I could understand. It's frustrating that programs try to quash info as our resources are thin. Really ridiculous as IIRC he was almost always thoughtful, honest and never derogatory. He is missed.

Well, there was one less than flattering comment about Gupta. :ninja:
Well that's unfortunate. I didn't realize his identity was so public. I wonder how his PD knew which resident of his bunch to lean on. I enjoyed his input and still come across his posts occasionally when reading old threads.
 
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