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...when you have a strong feeling about the issue. I'm referring to moral issues like abortion. Are there right and wrong responses?
DrYo12 said:Yes. The wrong response would be to lie about what you think. Likewise, a wrong response would be something that you say just because you believe its what they want to hear and can't speak meaningfully about it.
Basically, they ask you these things to make you sweat and to try and figure out how you will react under pressure and make decisions when you are forced to consider medical necessity vs your moral stance.
Psycho Doctor said:Well i'm more concerned about the second part of your response. I would not lie, but rather speak my mind. However i am totally against abortion; and I know it's an accepted medical procedure, so how do you respond to a question like that knowing you are probably not holding the most widely held view? Do I just say I am opposed to it but if a patient came to me requesting such a procedure, i'd counsel her and refer her to someone else? I mean honestly I'd have reservations of being instrumental in getting her to that endpoint, but I know it's expected of a physician.
ajt2003 said:Have people really been getting questions like these - that are that emotionally charged? The reason I ask is because all of my interviews have been very conversational - more about me, what makes me tick...I haven't even been asked WHY THIS SCHOOL or WHY MEDICINE. Maybe that's because I'm older...I don't know...I've been asked some challenging ethics questions though...
Psycho Doctor said:Do I just say I am opposed to it but if a patient came to me requesting such a procedure, i'd counsel her and refer her to someone else? I mean honestly I'd have reservations of being instrumental in getting her to that endpoint, but I know it's expected of a physician.
ajt2003 said:Have people really been getting questions like these - that are that emotionally charged?
Psycho Doctor said:I mean honestly I'd have reservations of being instrumental in getting her to that endpoint, but I know it's expected of a physician.
SanDiegoSOD said:Psycho - I recommend practicing with a friend. Have him or her prod you with statements that you strongly disagree with, such as science being evidence that God doesn't exist, that abortion is good because it keeps the population under control, that religious people make bad doctors, etc., just things that you know will piss you off. Practice responded calmly, without getting flustered in any way and without raising your voice. Sit up straight, but don't raise to the edge of your seat, and don't shake your head, roll your eyes, or scoff when they say something outrageous. If you can speak passionately about your beliefs without being preachy, while respecting the other persons POV, then you're good to go.
SanDiegoSOD said:Most importantly - Don't preach, and don't assume the moral high ground! The quickest way to lose a debate is to assume that your responses are morally superior and will hold moral weight.
Psycho Doctor said:come on, would anyone dare comment God not existing? Or are you just trying to get me to practice on hypothetical issues?
Do you think anyone will ask my POV of eating doggie sandwiches? because I'm totally against that as well.