How forward is too forward when asking for a LOR?

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Chunkeroni

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I have really wanted to get a LOR from a DO. I have one from an MD but feel that I could really benefit from getting one from a DO. My question is how forward is too forward. Would it be inappropriate to ask for a LOR after only meeting once? Thanks for any answers...
 
My DO LORs were both written after sitting down and talking with the doctors one time. They were both knew my father though. (He is a neurologist and an MD.) I spoke with them over the phone and sat down with them and talked at length. I brought a copy of my CV, GPA calculations, MCAT, etc. The sole purpose of the meeting was to have them write my letters. Neither one of the DOs was really close to my father, so I guess it was kind of a professional courtesy for them to sit down with me. But, the letters were not an automatic thing. I did spend a lot of time speaking with them and they asked me a lot of questions about myself, why DO, why medicine, etc. It was kind of like an interview. I would imagine that you could do the same thing if you contacted a DO. I think I would just call one and tell them that you are applying to osteopathic schools and you need to sit down and speak with a DO to get more information and hopefully to get a letter of recommendation. I don't know if that is the proper etiquette or not, but it is what I would have done if the other way hadn't worked out. But again, the DO I was going to contact is in practice with my midwife, so I kind of knew her. So, unless you know a DO, I guess you will have to go through the phonebook until someone says yes. LOL!!! (j/k) I think I would just be open about the purpose of the meeting from the beginning so they know why you are really there. Oh, I also brought a list of the schools I was applying to with addresses. I offered the stamped and addressed envelopes, but they didn't want them. Hope this helps somewhat. Good luck!:luck: 😀
 
My DO LORs were both written after sitting down and talking with the doctors one time. They were both knew my father though. (He is a neurologist and an MD.) I spoke with them over the phone and sat down with them and talked at length. I brought a copy of my CV, GPA calculations, MCAT, etc. The sole purpose of the meeting was to have them write my letters. Neither one of the DOs was really close to my father, so I guess it was kind of a professional courtesy for them to sit down with me. But, the letters were not an automatic thing. I did spend a lot of time speaking with them and they asked me a lot of questions about myself, why DO, why medicine, etc. It was kind of like an interview. I would imagine that you could do the same thing if you contacted a DO. I think I would just call one and tell them that you are applying to osteopathic schools and you need to sit down and speak with a DO to get more information and hopefully to get a letter of recommendation. I don't know if that is the proper etiquette or not, but it is what I would have done if the other way hadn't worked out. But again, the DO I was going to contact is in practice with my midwife, so I kind of knew her. So, unless you know a DO, I guess you will have to go through the phonebook until someone says yes. LOL!!! (j/k) I think I would just be open about the purpose of the meeting from the beginning so they know why you are really there. Oh, I also brought a list of the schools I was applying to with addresses. I offered the stamped and addressed envelopes, but they didn't want them. Hope this helps somewhat. Good luck!:luck: 😀

Thanks so much that is a lot of help!! I have a terrible time asking for these types of favors, even from my own professors...thanks again
 
Yeah I had to do the same thing. I work at Vanderbilt and just went through the physcian list and emailed a few of them. They were more than happy to meet with me; we discussed the ups and downs of being a D.O. etc and I learned a lot from them. But having only spent an hour with each of them, I felt werid asking for a recomendation.

But I emailed both of them and ask "if they would feel comfortable writing me a recommendation" and both were really happy to...so I think most are very willing to help out students, especially if it means there will be a whole lot more D.O.s in the future!!

If I make it in, I am certainly going to do my best to help pre-med students!!🙂
 
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