I had a postdoc interview for a state position in the prisons over three weeks ago. It is now november and the postdoc is supposed to start in november. I have not heard anything back from them as of yet whether it is a yes or no. I did send a thank you email a few days after the interview. But was hoping to at least get some answer by now. This is my first choice and I dont want to come off too eager or needy but I don't want to accept other offers if this one is willing.