How much debt did you graduate with?
What is your average salary?
How long have you been making payments?
How much are you paying monthly?
How long until you expect to pay it off?
To jump back to what the OP was asking about.
1. I graduated with around $350k in federal loans from both undergrad and vet school. That is now around $385k.
2. I started at $86k first year out, then went up to $90k, then up to $91-92k during the second-third year. And now almost 4 years out I am making around $80k due to a career change (not out of vet med just out of clinical practice).
3. I have been making payments since November of 2016
4. I am on REPAYE, payment varies based upon my salary, have been anywhere from $0 (first year out) to$545 a month. I would say it mostly hangs out in the $480-$550 range each month. Keep in mind, this doesn't touch the interest. Interest alone is over $1000/month. A 10 year repayment plan would be about $4500/month. I don't make $4500 in a month.
5. Well, hoping for forgiveness, which type I will get is still up in the air at this point. Hoping for PSLF, but not holding my breath on it, so still saving for taxes for the income based repayment in 25 years just in case PSLF falls through the cracks.
Honestly, I don't think posts like this really help for people to really SEE how this affects life.
I think what people really need to see is what it cost to live and how the loans affect your ability to live.
For example, I could have paid off the loans in 10 years initially. It would have cost about $4300/month and I was probably getting exactly that post-taxes in pay. I would have needed to live at home with my parents for 10 years. I graduated at 28, I don't know about anyone else, but living with mommy and daddy until 38 was not on my "goals" list. I also would have had $0 left over. I wouldn't have been able to buy food, help with electricity, water, internet/tv/phone bills, etc. It would have been 10 years of being a 100% free loader off my parents as an adult with a doctorate degree.
I didn't want that. No one wants that.
I was able to after about a year buy a home. Not an expensive one at all either.
So let's make some realistic idea of how this looks....
1. Home mortgage ($230k home)....$1500/month
2. Car payment (I couldn't drive my grandma's 14 year old Pontiac forever, it was having issues, got a car with a really good warranty, cheap car)... $350/month
3. Car insurance.... $125/month
4. Gas: $30/month
5. Electricity: $25-300/month, depending on the time of year
6. TV (I am actually cancelling this next month because it is dumb): $130/month
7. Internet/home phone service: $103/month (the phone is needed for work).
8. HOA fees (around here there is no way to find a home without an HOA, it is dumb, I don't like): $90/month
9. City billing (trash service, waste water): $46/month
10: Water bill: $35/month
11. I have a no interest credit card I used to furnish the house that will be paid off at the end of this year: $200/month
12. Private student loan payment: $440/month (current payment this varies)
13. Federal student loan payment: $490/month (current payment this varies)
14: Home security: $53/month (also cancelling this next month, I don't need the monitoring, the equipment is fine, but you can't get the equipment without signing a 2 year monitoring contract with it).
That is approximately $3600 in bills alone every month. I pull in about $4400 a month post-taxes currently. That leaves $800 for food, gas for the car, clothing, cleaning supplies, pet supplies, entertainment, cell phone, etc.
You can say "I don't want a home" which maybe you don't, but apartment rent around here is on average $1200/month, so not going to save much. Still have to pay all the rest, minus the HOA. You may say you don't mind having an old car, but repeat repairs is a drain on the finances as well.
If you have an SO it makes this all easier. If you are single, it is possible, but you aren't living in luxury by any means.