I work at multiple hospitals (full time one hospital, part time at another, and PRN at 3 hospitals).
My full time hospital is the absolute worst dumpster fire of an ED you can possibly imagine. The main hospital I see 1.8 pph (which is like moving 2.5 pph because of the hospital is total crap). The freestanding I see 2.5 pph. This freestanding sees 40,000 patients per year out of 8 beds. Sometimes I am seeing 4-6 patients per hr for multiple hours (4-6 hrs). The freestanding acuity is more of urgent care with needle in a haystack ER patient. I work 120-180 hours between main hospital and freestanding.
My part time hospital is a rural 0.5-0.7 pph, 6 bed ED. I work 48 hrs here (24 hr then 12 overnight then 12 overnight).
My PRN hospitals are decent and I see 2 pph. Anywhere from 10-60 hours a month.
Remember 220-230 per month is my average, I sometimes work 240-260 hours a month.
I am happily married for 7 years, and have two children. I take plenty of vacations and I have plenty of holidays off (Christmas this year). You are right that I do not have a lot of free time for my own hobbies. But my wife and kids fill my life enough to not need personal hobbies. I also pay “people” to do all the mundane things in my life (maid, lawn mower, etc).
I save a ton of money, and my IRA/HSA/401ks are full every year plus 529s/wedding funds/inheritance funds for my kids and an additional brokerage account for me. I live in a “dream home” for normal people but nothing special for my Top 1% peers. My wife and I drive normal people vehicles. I live in a low cost area and no income tax state. I have no plans to retire early but I could retire today. My wife is a trust fund baby, but we live off my earnings.
It works for now but I will probably cut back to 180 hrs in 1.5 years then do that for 5 years.