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Some may think this thread is tacky, but I think its an important skill. The fact is that our status as physicians can bring us some really great social benefits. I ran a little informal experiment: I kept track of the people who messaged me on a dating site when my photo was me in a t-shirt, and then I changed the photo to me in a white coat with a stethescope. Can you guess what happened? 3X more messages, double the response rate to messages I sent, and lots of people sending me unsolicited explicit images. Conclusion: When I conveyed my status as a physician, potential dates became much more highly interested in me. I really like this!!!
So, I am trying to figure out tactful ways of making the fact that I am a doctor known in social situations, so I can experience the social benefits. One way that I have found, which has been highly successful, is to send a wing man over to say, "My friend thinks you're really hot...you should talk to him, he's a doctor..." It is highly effective. But when I don't have a wing man with me to bring that fact up, I run the risk of sounding a little bit like an ass if I just blurt out that I'm a doctor. It sounds like I'm bragging. Ah what to do?!?
One solution I have come up with is to get business cards printed (my shop doesn't provide us with any), and then write my cell phone number on it and just say, "I think you're cute, send me a text if you'd like!". They'll figure out I'm a doctor from looking at the business card.
Another thing to do is carry my pager, and text a colleague to page me with a fake question. Then I can answer a page, get out my phone, call my colleague back and engage in a short important-sounding medical conversation. It is really a good way to telegraph social status. But its just one trick.
I'm sure you guys have other tricks. What are they?
So, I am trying to figure out tactful ways of making the fact that I am a doctor known in social situations, so I can experience the social benefits. One way that I have found, which has been highly successful, is to send a wing man over to say, "My friend thinks you're really hot...you should talk to him, he's a doctor..." It is highly effective. But when I don't have a wing man with me to bring that fact up, I run the risk of sounding a little bit like an ass if I just blurt out that I'm a doctor. It sounds like I'm bragging. Ah what to do?!?
One solution I have come up with is to get business cards printed (my shop doesn't provide us with any), and then write my cell phone number on it and just say, "I think you're cute, send me a text if you'd like!". They'll figure out I'm a doctor from looking at the business card.
Another thing to do is carry my pager, and text a colleague to page me with a fake question. Then I can answer a page, get out my phone, call my colleague back and engage in a short important-sounding medical conversation. It is really a good way to telegraph social status. But its just one trick.
I'm sure you guys have other tricks. What are they?