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Whether or not you have a family should not play into the distribution of holiday days off.my holiday schedule is always heavier because I'm told I don't have a family.
My suggestion is to drop it, suck it up, and work the shift.Any other suggestions?
I'm just a medical student (though an older one - one of those people who had a life and another career before medical school), but I'd like to comment on the emotional tone of your post. You have perfectly valid reasons to be pissed off; nobody should be taken advantage of like this, and there shouldn't be any favoritism in call assignments. However, for your own sake, I hope that you have enough strength in you not to make it sound personal whenever and with whoever you discuss this situation at your program and hospital (GME office or whatever... by the way, what's your relationship like with chief resident(s)? Can you get them to help in this situation?). Because, regardless how unfair and how personal the situation is, it's better to be as impartial as possible, professional, stick to the facts (here's how many calls I've covered for other people... I expect to have my well deserved weekends off - not to mention it's time for those people to pay back and cover some of my scheduled calls etc). Claiming PD's favoritism, however true it may be, is not going to reflect well on you. And yeah, seek some support at the program - chiefs, attendings, fellow residents you have good relationships with.Long time listener, first time caller.
I'm currently a resident. I feel like I have taken more than my share of call shifts in my program. I've covered an insane amount of maternity/paternity leaves while getting no compensatory time off, and my holiday schedule is always heavier because I'm told I don't have a family. Now today I'm being told that I have to work a weekend a couple of weeks from now. I had plans on this weekend because when the schedule came out in October, I wasn't listed to work. The departmental schedules that have come out since then have said the same. Then today the latest update comes and I'm scheduled to work that weekend. This is the only way I even knew. No one had the decency to even tell me. I'm pissed.
I'm thinking about going to GME in the morning. In my program, you don't get an elective if you have a baby. The person who was supposed to work that weekend somehow got an elective in February. She also took a 7 week maternity leave at the beginning of this year. She's also BFFs with the PD, so the rules of the program never seem to apply to her. She and I also abhor one another. Guess who was supposed to work the weekend I'm now working? She should have to take one of my weekends I was scheduled for the rest of the year, and from what I'm hearing I'll instead still be working all I was slated to do. I think it's BS and I'm sick of it. My PD doesn't especially like me, so going to her isn't an option. Thus, my thought is to go to our GME director to make it right. Any other suggestions?
On the other hand, if you're way over the max allowed hours... keep your head down and get through it. They can always hurt you more.If you're still under the max allowed hours, keep your head down and get through it.....they can always hurt you more
My PD doesn't especially like me, so going to her isn't an option. Thus, my thought is to go to our GME director to make it right. Any other suggestions?
How important are the plans you made for that weekend? Can they be moved?
If they can't be moved, or you would rather not move them, you could go to your chief and say "the October schedule and the departmental schedules showed that I was off on this weekend, so I made plans that I can't change. Today's schedule now shows me as working that weekend: is it possible to change that?" Don't mention your PD. Don't mention the person who is the PD's BFF. Don't mention people with families, or maternity leave. Don't mention having a heavier schedule because you don't have a family. Just make a polite request based on having previous plans.
If the response is a negative, you have to decide where your priorities are. You say the PD doesn't especially like you, which means that your position if you start making waves might not be strong. Remember that success is the best revenge: when you graduate from residency you can give them all the finger as you drive away to your first job as an attending.
If you're still under the max allowed hours, keep your head down and get through it.....they can always hurt you more
On the other hand, if you're way over the max allowed hours... keep your head down and get through it. They can always hurt you more.
Sad But True from Metallica plays at the background...
Anyway, I think you suffer from double standarts in your program. There is also restrictions in favor of mothers (which I think it should be) my country. Most programss try to equal the situations with some measures. For instance, the one in your program should taken out from electives strictly. Try to talk with your director, I hope it helps. Good luck.