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Hello everybody,
I should start off by saying that I'm not new to this forum, I've been silently reading threads since I started college but have never posted. I tried looking for a thread similar to my situation but I can't find one similar enough to take advice from.
I'm a sophomore in college. I did a program in high school where I could get my Associates of Science at a community college while still in high school. I graduated from high school but I had to continue an extra semester at the cc to finish up my degree. I started off by taking science electives rather than taking pre-reqs because I heard that community college pre-reqs don't look too good to adcoms. I ended up having to take Gen Chem 1 and Bio 1 at the cc to avoid falling behind. I don't want to say that the pre req courses at the cc were easy, but for some reason I learned better there. I had all of my friends there with me and we studied together. I was comfortable and happy and did pretty well. This semester, I transferred to a very competitive four year university. I'm currently taking Gen Chem 2, Physics, and a neuroscience course (I'm a neuro major). I love my neuro class and actually look forward to going to it. Physics isn't too bad, my instructor is very straight forward and fair. He gives us all of the information we need to succeed. But chemistry is so difficult. It has always been hard for me, even at the cc. But I guess I had more support there. Here, I'm all alone and I feel so overwhelmed. The exams seem impossible. Our class average was a failing grade on the last exam. I study and study and nothing works. We took our first exam last week and I failed terrible and it was worth 10% of our grade. I cried for hours after seeing my grade. I tried talking to my professor and advisors and told them about how overwhelmed I'm feeling and they basically told me that I will never get into (or succeed) in medical school if I can't suck it up and somehow do well.
I hate this school and it's making me hate being a pre-med. Everybody is so harsh and not understanding. It's making me doubt my life long dream of being a doctor. I come from a very under-deserved culture where there aren't many doctors and I've always wanted to be the one to give back to them. Not just to mine, but every community lacking medical resources.
I'm sorry if I'm complaining too much or if I sound whiny but I have literally been miserable for the past month. I have no motivation and it's only getting worse and worse. I wish that I had somebody to talk to about this but I literally have no friends at this new university. My friends all went on to smaller colleges and they seem so happy. Whenever I try to tell my family they tell me to suck it up and that this is the real world. I just feel like I shouldn't be this miserable. I'm seriously considering changing my track to something that will make me much happier but my family and friends would be so heartbroken. I've thought about becoming an elementary school teacher or maybe even a lawyer. English, history, and social science courses have always come naturally to me. I had to work twice as hard in my science courses to succeed. But then, I wonder if I'm limiting myself. I would hate to look back on my life and feel as if I gave up my dream over one crappy semester. I work and volunteer in a hospital right now and I love it so much. I've considered nursing but I don't think that it's something that I would like to do. If I'm going to work in the medical field I wanted to be a doctor and that's it. Again, I'm sorry that this is such a long rant. I've just kept this bottled up and I could use some opinions or insight. I understand that the decision is ultimately mine, but I'm completely lost and could use some help coming to that decision. Thank you in advance.
I should start off by saying that I'm not new to this forum, I've been silently reading threads since I started college but have never posted. I tried looking for a thread similar to my situation but I can't find one similar enough to take advice from.
I'm a sophomore in college. I did a program in high school where I could get my Associates of Science at a community college while still in high school. I graduated from high school but I had to continue an extra semester at the cc to finish up my degree. I started off by taking science electives rather than taking pre-reqs because I heard that community college pre-reqs don't look too good to adcoms. I ended up having to take Gen Chem 1 and Bio 1 at the cc to avoid falling behind. I don't want to say that the pre req courses at the cc were easy, but for some reason I learned better there. I had all of my friends there with me and we studied together. I was comfortable and happy and did pretty well. This semester, I transferred to a very competitive four year university. I'm currently taking Gen Chem 2, Physics, and a neuroscience course (I'm a neuro major). I love my neuro class and actually look forward to going to it. Physics isn't too bad, my instructor is very straight forward and fair. He gives us all of the information we need to succeed. But chemistry is so difficult. It has always been hard for me, even at the cc. But I guess I had more support there. Here, I'm all alone and I feel so overwhelmed. The exams seem impossible. Our class average was a failing grade on the last exam. I study and study and nothing works. We took our first exam last week and I failed terrible and it was worth 10% of our grade. I cried for hours after seeing my grade. I tried talking to my professor and advisors and told them about how overwhelmed I'm feeling and they basically told me that I will never get into (or succeed) in medical school if I can't suck it up and somehow do well.
I hate this school and it's making me hate being a pre-med. Everybody is so harsh and not understanding. It's making me doubt my life long dream of being a doctor. I come from a very under-deserved culture where there aren't many doctors and I've always wanted to be the one to give back to them. Not just to mine, but every community lacking medical resources.
I'm sorry if I'm complaining too much or if I sound whiny but I have literally been miserable for the past month. I have no motivation and it's only getting worse and worse. I wish that I had somebody to talk to about this but I literally have no friends at this new university. My friends all went on to smaller colleges and they seem so happy. Whenever I try to tell my family they tell me to suck it up and that this is the real world. I just feel like I shouldn't be this miserable. I'm seriously considering changing my track to something that will make me much happier but my family and friends would be so heartbroken. I've thought about becoming an elementary school teacher or maybe even a lawyer. English, history, and social science courses have always come naturally to me. I had to work twice as hard in my science courses to succeed. But then, I wonder if I'm limiting myself. I would hate to look back on my life and feel as if I gave up my dream over one crappy semester. I work and volunteer in a hospital right now and I love it so much. I've considered nursing but I don't think that it's something that I would like to do. If I'm going to work in the medical field I wanted to be a doctor and that's it. Again, I'm sorry that this is such a long rant. I've just kept this bottled up and I could use some opinions or insight. I understand that the decision is ultimately mine, but I'm completely lost and could use some help coming to that decision. Thank you in advance.