"to be earnest?" What is "earnest"? Now getting to your opinions on
MY reasons why
I want to be a dental medical doctor....
First, I believe they're all true in my opinion. Every one has their own reasons and beliefs on why they want to be a dentist, there isn't really right or wrong answers on why YOU want to be a dentist.
You say: Wouldn't people ( besides us ) think you're a med school dropout, like what Jerry Seinfeld says?
I say: Jerry Seinfield, are you kidding me? Is he the official professions guru? All patients that I've interacted in private dental offices (General, Perio, and OMS) and dental school settings, they've all shared one common theme, they all enjoy their dentists very much EVEN when they're getting their 3rds yanked. Do you feel that Broadway Play Actors are second to Big Screen Actors and that the reason that they're there is because they couldn't make it in Hollywood, CA? I believe not, they're simply have different passion on what they do. If you survey 100 random patients, I can bet on that over 50% of them will say they've never thought that I'm in dentistry because I couldn't make it in medicine. Heck if I truely liked medicine, I would be there right now!
You say: Choose? I thought you have to be accepted for this. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I heard you need like a 93% on the boards and above a 3.7 dental gpa to be considered seriously for this rare spot. If anything, an MD/DDS oral surgery job is more 'prestigious' of all health careers and it's obvious that nobody's going to hand it to you for free.
I say: Did I say for "free"? I said "choose to be"....of course you have to earn it, but you STILL choose to earn good grades, study, and do well on the NBDE don't you? YOU ABSOLUTELY CHOOSE on what you want to do in your life, especially in your career. Unless you're one of those passive people that let life come to you instead of having you take charge of your life, then I guess I can see how you didn't understand what I was talking about when I say "choose to be"! You're correct on the competitiveness for OMS and OMS/MD programs, but stay tuned, I'll be occupying one of ~180 spaces for OMS or OMS/MD in four years because I "choose" to kick @ss in all of my classes and to do well on my NBDEs. I was is Oral Surgery department yesterday morning shadowing and assisting at my dental school here at Nova, the Chief OMS Resident and a D3 couldn't believe that I, a D1, already know what I want to do OMS already! They not only involved me in the procedure, but they also want me back there every Thursday to further expose myself in the specialty. Listen, I'm not arrogant or think I'm the ****, I simply know what I want to do and am determined! All because I "choose" to.
You say: 13. Frankly, the dentists living on my block have gross wives. Also, I thought modern women prefer only good looking men and most male dentists don't have that quality.
I say: Wow...maybe it's a Nova or FL thing, but majority of my colleagues are amazingly attractive. Some find me attractive and some don't, but I never seem to have problems to hangout with beautiful women on dates, social gathering, or in academic settings. I'll find that someone special who's not only intelligent, but also drop dead gorgeous! I'm not worried!
You say: Everyone knows and nobody cares that much.
I say: Whoa....why are you applying to dentistry if you believe no one cares that much about their oral hygiene and health? I believe differently....for those that do not care, they're simply unaware of the whole oral hygiene-pathology relationship. You reach out, people will care! Positive attitude, my friend.
You say: All toothpastes/brush are the same. We all know that anything that has fluoride does the job and that any indicated product features are marketing gimmicks.
I say: Gimmicks or not, this is still one of my reasons why I want to be a dentist! How is it not true, if this is MY reason that I want to be a dentist? I never said IN GENERAL this is why people want to become a dentist, did I? I think it's cool that patients will ask you for recommendations of oral hygiene products! Every patient that I interacted with ALWAYS looked at their new toothbrush with a smile when it was given to them at the end of their appointment to see what color it was, what brand, what shape, etc.! If they're all the same, then why do you go to Target, Walmart, or where ever and stand in the toothbrush isle for 5 minutes or more to decide on which new toothbrush or toothpaste to purchase. Everyone does this!
You say: But most don't, if you look at the stats.
I say: We sure do, especially with the family care doctors. Obviously with specialties are different, but if we dentists work just as much hours as physicians do, we'd be making just as much as they would if not more! Let's compare apples to apples here...a dental specialty with a medical specialty (Oral surgery and Radiology) and general dentistry with family practice...pretty equal in gross income, but dentistry has much better lifestyle (golfing)!
Here's the whole deal....these are MY reasons why I want to become a dentist and they're simply what I believe in...not you or the person next to you, you have your own. They're neither true or false, they're simply my beliefs and my fuel for my career success!