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"I envy those who truly love what they do day in and day out."
You might feel better when you realize that these people don't exist.
I wish
"I envy those who truly love what they do day in and day out."
You might feel better when you realize that these people don't exist.
EM for me, is like that crazy first girlfriend, perfect at the time:
Intoxicating. Amazing. Crazy. Beautiful. Ugly. Exciting. Boring. Necessary. Not eternal.
I loved and hated every minute of the crazy roller coaster ride, but I'd never, ever give up the memories. I'm thankful for the person she made me, for without her I wouldn't be in the place I am now, but I'm happy we've parted ways. I vow never to go back to her, but in a moment of weakness, just might be tempted. I prefer my new lady, who has a little less glitz and glam, but is a lot more stable.
Do I regret the experience? Not for a minute.
Knowing what the person I was knew then, would I do it again? Hell yeah!
Knowing what the person I am knows now, would I go back? Hell no.
Residency is great in EM. The pay is great for what we do. We do save lives - though we also put up with a ton of garbage also. The hours are not great - I'll say it again, it's not a "lifestyle" choice if you're working all different shifts, weekends, holidays blah, blah, blah.
But there is no place I'd rather be. I liked the OR, hated the hours. Hated clinic. Hated seing the same jack-wagons over and over who didn't take care of themselves. Hated long rounds.
Love walking into a room - figuring out if they're sick, treating them, admitting them or DC them. Even if they're not sick and want Percs or took the EMS Taxi for a sore throat - there is no place I'd rather be.
And come on, who is usually the most useful doctor in a room in case of emergency? As a bonus, the stories are legendary.
As someone interested in EM I've been doing a lot of reading in this forum. I've seen scary posts about being berated by ungrateful patients. I've also read a bunch of posts about how specialists may not respect you and can be somewhat condescending during consults, as well as them possibly making a ton more money than you.
Is it really that bad or are these just the standard downsides that every profession will have? As the title says, if you could do it all over again would you go into a different field or do you really enjoy it deep down?
No, I wouldn't choose another specialty over again. I think EM was the best fit for me. I might not choose "medicine" again, but probably would anyway... Yes, some of the downsides are very real and not to be ignored. Like most things in life, nothing is perfect. Focus on the positives, minimize the negatives and you'll enjoy your job and life a lot more. Don't look for the perfect specialty, don't make lists, don't talk to 20 random people and let them sway you... in the end just go with your gut.
"I envy those who truly love what they do day in and day out."
You might feel better when you realize that these people don't exist.
They exist, just not in the field of medicine.