I asked my original question as I knew that there are a few attendings floating around that have dealt with this before, so I figured no harm in asking?
In true forum fashion, I got side tracked into another topic. But while we are on the topic, I do hear what you are saying and certainly agree. However, don't most GME programs (military or civilian) have at least a handful of attendings that are malignant? That is, belaboring inane aspects of history (e.g. are you sure that guy with paralysis after snorting cocaine just didn't get bit my his pet puffer fish? Did you even ask if he has pets? God you are stupid!) Or focusing in on esoteric pimp questions (e.g. which spinal subnucleus directly controls the autonomic innervation of one's anal sweat glands). etc. etc. etc.
I don't know? Maybe I was just indoctrinated into a malignant program or somewhere along the way developed "Stockholm Syndrome" but overall I just felt as if dealing with at least a couple of malignant attendings was a residency rite of passage?
As for DD214's prior comment about education meetings, well, my program had a monthly roundtable style meeting where all of the attendings would get together and talk about each and every resident. Whenever I was a PGY-4 and serving as chief resident (by force, not by honor) I had the privilege of sitting in on these meetings. I would rather had been doing something more useful like giving my goldfish a bath, but I typically had to go to my mental happy place during these meetings.
Anyways, enough said for that. I am happy to no longer be dealing with Monday morning quarterbacks.