Inches from dropping out

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Either way you WILL be screwed. I wouldn't hire you.....

You wouldn't hire someone because they repeated first year? That's really sad. People fail first year for all sorts of reasons, then go on to do well in subsequent years, including third year which is most relevant to being a physician.
 
You wouldn't hire someone because they repeated first year? That's really sad. People fail first year for all sorts of reasons, then go on to do well in subsequent years, including third year which is most relevant to being a physician.
There are many many more red flags than just the repeating the year.
 
I have to agree with the person who suggested psych. If you're thinking of getting a Psy D you will either pay for it out of pocket, or get a scholarship that pays for your tuition only, or if you're really lucky and uber-competitive applicant you will get a scholarship and marginal fellowship. After graduation you will work your --- off to get a position at a university or go into clinical practice, which are both reasonably competitive as well.

Now if you finish med school and match into a psych residency: psych is not that competitive. You will make 50-60 k per year in residency and then make a decent 6-figure income in practice. Up to 400-500 k gross if you work a lot, depending on where you're at (I know cause my dad was a psychiatrist). Malpractice cost is low compared to surgery, you'll be able to see your kids grow up, and you'll have a fascinating career. And there's a shortage of psychiatrists so you know you will be filling a need in your community and helping people out. One last thing is you can enter the National Health Service Corps and they'll help you pay off your debt with a commitment of a few years in an underserved area (can be anywhere from rural Kansas to an urban, low-income population in NYC).

Just my (biased) two-cents coming from a hopeful future psych whose father also was a psych. But still : )

You do not enter practice or academia that quickly. There is an internship that must be completed in order to sit for a licensing exam. You can start working after passing the licensing exam. If you want to specialize, there are fellowships that are very hard to get, such as forensics, etc. Anyway, clinical psych is a very long road. I am sure the OP would not wan't to subject himself and his family to this.

I think shadowing other specialties maybe a good idea, although the lifestyle of a psychiatrist can be pretty good. There are psychiatrists in my area that do not take call after hours. Patients are referred to the Suicide and Crisis Center and Emergency Room if necessary. They also work a 9-5 job.
 
Also consider the possibility that your odds of landing this six-figure position won't change if you spend another year in medical school. If you forego residency you can still continue with your endeavor, with the possibility of returning to medicine if that doesn't work out for you. If you quit now, you won't ever have that as a "back-up".

Another thing I'd mention for anyone in the future who may read this thread looking for advice is that it's easy to superimpose the way the culture of medicine works on other careers. What I mean is that a lot of smart, hardworking individuals graduate high school, apply their intelligence and work hard and get into medical school. With medicine there's a very high correlation between intelligence/hard work and success, with pure luck being a minimal factor. Often people (not necessary the OP, since I have no idea his history) will only have this experience that they will project on other paths (i.e. as long as I work hard I can do whatever I was, which to an extent is true, but its application is much, much different in other fields). The correlation of hard work and intelligence to being succcessful in other fields is significantly less important than it is in medicine, especially in business. Working hard and being smart in medicine will guarantee you just about anything (as far as being able to go as far as you need to, roughly be able to be in whatever specialty you want, but ultimately have security and be able to make money), but in the business world being intelligent and working hard won't necessarily guarantee you anything. In medicine it is necessary and sufficient. In business it is not always necessary, but it is most certainly never sufficient.

Dude, thank you for saying this. I always try to explain this to people and they often just don't get it.

The "hard work/success" ratio is probably higher in medicine than it is in any other field. You can bust your ass for years in other professions (law, academia, and business come to mind) and have precious little to show for it. Push it hard in medicine, however, and it is quite possible to get yourself at (or near) the top. I see people whining on the resident boards all the time about how much they think medicine sucks and how they're so confident they could just jump out of medicine and waltz into a six figure income somewhere else. Nice try, but it just ain't that easy.
 
I had a hard time at the end of 1st year. I felt totally burned out and had to help take care of an ill family member with a very unpredictable course of diease. I was putting more energy and time into my family than into school, and as a result, I came close to remediating in a subdiscipline. Towards the end of the semester, I realized what was happening and I got some people to help me with the family responsibilities while I focused on school. I had enough time to bring my grades back up and have not come close to remediating since then because I now know how to ask for help!

It sounds like you could use a reminder of why you decided to go to medical school in the first place- maybe visit the school clinic, work with a doc in the area for a day, see some patients... I am currently a third year and I have so say that it has been worth all of the hard work! I also think that it has not gotten harder by the year, the challenges have just been different every year.

If your relationship is over, try to examine what went wrong and apply that to the future. Did you spend time with your significant other every day? Did you always talk about medical school and nothing else? Did you only hang out with med students? Many relationships suffer in medical school for a variety of reasons. The most important thing to realize is that you need to strive for more balance and stability in your life on your own before you start a new relationship.
 
Finish a residency and move to Canada to work as a physician. Leave your loans in the US and start your life anew. Sounds like a plan, eh?😎
 
Finish a residency and move to Canada to work as a physician. Leave your loans in the US and start your life anew. Sounds like a plan, eh?😎

haha good luck with that, as a Canadian I can tell you that would be nice if it was possible and I would do that. I dare to dream though:laugh:
 
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