Initial disappointment

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Youbring up legitimate concerns for being a DO. The OP is upset because his daddy is an MD, and his mommy is an MD. He feels inferior and his perceived lack of acceptance is the driving force of his depression. People are questioning whether he went into medicine for the right reasons. He is acting like a little bitch and he needs to man up. Sorry for my French.

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Youbring up legitimate concerns for being a DO. The OP is upset because his daddy is an MD, and his mommy is an MD. He feels inferior and his perceived lack of acceptance is the driving force of his depression. People are questioning whether he went into medicine for the right reasons. He is acting like a little bitch and he needs to man up. Sorry for my French.
I appreciate calling it as it is...
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The DO students I talked to said OMM is easy and not much of a time drain. And lots oof schools are in urban locations.NY Philly Miami Chicago LA San Fran Denver. Lots are rural too though that's true.
This really depends on the school. Mine has a very OMM heavy curriculum, making OMM the bane of my existence. On the upside, I'll be well prepared come board time.
 
This really depends on the school. Mine has a very OMM heavy curriculum, making OMM the bane of my existence. On the upside, I'll be well prepared come board time.

Can I message you about that?
 
I can understand your feelings, especially if you're a traditional student and getting into med school is the main thing you've been working towards in your adult life. As a nontrad, I just hated my short post-bac pre-med experience and I'd be more than happy to go to a DO school if that means I can finally begin my medical career.

But maybe you'd be more willing to spend more time preparing for an MCAT retake, taking more classes for a GPA boost, or generally addressing any issues that prevented you from getting into an MD school.

But is it worth it? Another year with anxiety over applying, another year of trying but not being there quite yet. And you have no guarantee you'll get into an MD school.

If I were you, I'd take that acceptance and just embrace everything that is different about DOs, maybe you'll grow to love OMM or become proud of the history, who knows.

Also, DO schools tend to attract a lot of nontrads and people with interesting life stories. You might find that your classmates are not "MD rejects" but people who can inspire you in different ways.

Congrats on your acceptance!
 
I have been in an Air National Guard medical unit for over six years now and the physicians in the unit are about 50/50 MD/DO respectively. You would never know unless you asked because they don't care and they don't discern professionally between MD and DO. They simply work together towards the goal of patient care.

The only people who really seem to care about this are pre-meds. Get over yourself and go become a physician.
 
I have been in an Air National Guard medical unit for over six years now and the physicians in the unit are about 50/50 MD/DO respectively. You would never know unless you asked because they don't care and they don't discern professionally between MD and DO. They simply work together towards the goal of patient care.

The only people who really seem to care about this are pre-meds. Get over yourself and go become a physician.
Totally agree, but I should add (just for honesty sake) that the military is really different than the civilian world when it comes to DO bias stuff. As a DO you have exactly the same amount of chance of getting into top military residencies as MD students do. But one simply could not genuinely say the same about top ACGME residencies in most specialties. DOs CAN get into those top specialties, and they CAN get into those big name places... But if we are being statistically honest, its definitely harder for the DO than it is for an MD - discussing TOP places here, not 90% of the normal places or specialties.
 
Oh, man. Another MD vs. DO thread...

OP, I know that people are being very harsh on this thread, but honestly, what did you expect? You're not going to get much reassurance or sympathy here, especially because this is one issue that irks DOs the most. You're literally coming to an osteopathic forum and saying you're second rate, and then asking a ton of osteopathic "second rate" applicants to reassure you that you're not second rate. See the irony here?

Firstly, you should know that the MD vs. DO distinction is run by pre-meds. Yes, there is still DO bias, and top MD residencies may still discriminate against DOs, but that is lessening every year; the MD/DO residency merger will further continue this trend. Pre-meds - yes, the ones with NO ACTUAL MED SCHOOL EXPERIENCE - are the ones that seem to be obsessed with MD vs. DO wars.

Secondly, people go DO for a variety of reasons. Many weren't accepted to MD schools, but DO schools aren't just made up of MD rejects. Tons upon tons of people are impressed with the philosophy, some love OMM and want to learn about hands-on manipulation, still others go for the geographical location, others have been inspired by a DO to pursue the osteopathic route, etc. etc. I know of several people that picked DO over MD and a couple that only applied DO, even with MD-level stats. If you see going to any US medical school as a second rate option, then you're deluding yourself. You should also be aware that DO schools, like MD schools, have acceptance rates in the single digits, making many of them more competitive than the Ivies for undergrad. Getting into any medical school, MD or DO, is a huge accomplishment, and you sound extremely ungrateful.

With all due respect, if you're obsessed with the MD after your name, why don't you just go to the Caribbean? Their acceptance standards are much lower than those of DO schools, and you'll have MD after your name when you graduate.
 
Getting into any medical school, MD or DO, is a huge accomplishment, and you sound extremely ungrateful

I don't need to be grateful for an acceptance. I earned it on my own.

With all due respect, if you're obsessed with the MD after your name, why don't you just go to the Caribbean? Their acceptance standards are much lower than those of DO schools, and you'll have MD after your name when you graduate.

I'm not "obsessed" with anything. I was just disappointed at first for not getting into UIC, Rush, Loyola, or any of the other allopathic schools in my state. I'm an Illinois resident and am content going to my state DO school (I've heard Midwestern is a decent school, btw) but I'd be lying if I would say that it was my top choice. Regarding Caribbean schools, I don't want to go venture into the islands for a medical degree. I'm sure it's possible to do fine from there, but I would rather not be that far away from home. Hell, I have a classmate who is going to a caribbean school after not getting into a single US MD school. He didn't apply to any DO schools because he wasn't interested in doing so but I don't judge him one bit. Everyone has their preferences.
 
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I don't need to be grateful for an acceptance. I earned it with a lot of work and perseverance.
Lets just put that bow on the package that makes you sound like a complete jerk:

Come from dual MD parent stock - check
Not happy with DO because of your parents - check
Not being grateful for an acceptance - check

There are plenty of people who have worked harder than you and have persevered more and still have no acceptance in hand. You actually should have some semblance of gratitude and appreciation for how your life has turned out. I think it is disingenuous to the reality of your fortunate situation if you say otherwise.
 
Yea, I mean if you want to be a physician, take the acceptance; but if it's going to stick in your craw, please just give the spot up to someone that really wants it already! Seriously. This sucks for others that really want to be physicians. Yikes.
 
I'm not "obsessed" with anything. I was just disappointed at first for not getting into UIC, Rush, Loyola, or any of the other allopathic schools in my state. I'm an Illinois resident and am content going to my state DO school (I've heard Midwestern is a decent school, btw) but I'd be lying if I would say that it was my top choice. Regarding Caribbean schools, I don't want to go venture into the islands for a medical degree. I'm sure it's possible to do fine from there, but I would rather not be that far away from home. Hell, I have a classmate who is going to a caribbean school after not getting into a single US MD school. He didn't apply to any DO schools because he wasn't interested in doing so but I don't judge him one bit. Everyone has their preferences.

Phew, now I know that we won't be at the same school. 👍
 
Lol okay I guess I deserved these responses by bringing my questions, concerns, and remarks to the pre-osteo crowd. Why does everyone here get so butt hurt when someone brings actual concerns about the DO profression? Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be.

I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.
 
Lol okay I guess I deserved these responses by bringing my questions, concerns, and remarks to the pre-osteo crowd. Why does everyone here get so butt hurt when someone brings actual concerns about the DO profression? Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be.

I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.

You've made several threads about this and have received more than enough informative replies.


If anyone is butt-hurt buddy, it' you. It's clear that you are looking towards SDN for some self-justification. I hope you get over this, because whether you go to Harvard or LECOM you will be treated as an inferior at any hospital by the attendings/residents/interns/ and even nurses.
 
OP,


Seriously. Drop your DO acceptance so that someone who will really appreciate the incredible opportunity granted to them will get it.

Re-apply more broadly to MD programs in June. If you don't, I sense you will always have this weird type of "MD envy", and will not be a very pleasant co-physician to be around or work with. You'll be happier in the long run for it. Best of luck.
 
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Before you turn down your acceptance, read about this doctor, I know the caption says "Hero MD" but this doctor is actually a DO.

His name is Dr. Richard Jadick DO, he received the Bronze Star for saving the lives of 30 US Servicemen in Iraq in 2006. Tell your parents about him.
 
I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

It's statements like those that are running this profession to the ground.

@MattSmith45 drop your DO acceptance and go for the MD, you'll obviously be happier there.

And TBH, with your sense entitlement, I would not want you as my doctor or colleague nor would I want you treating my family nor ANYONE for that matter.
 
It's statements like those that are running this profession to the ground.

@MattSmith45 drop your DO acceptance and go for the MD, you'll obviously be happier there.

And TBH, with your sense entitlement, I would not want you as my doctor or colleague nor would I want you treating my family.

People like Dr. Jadick will make sure the profession not only survives but thrives for years.
 
If you want to succeed in life you got to think positive. You were just granted a wonderful opportunity.
 
I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.

I would suspect that maybe, just maybe, there were some folks that helped you along the way. No one lives in a vacuum.

On another note, I think it would it be a fun experiment if each school's admissions office could identify an applicants' posts on SDN.

For what it's worth, I'm eternally grateful for every interview, rejection, wait list, and acceptance I've received this year as I've learned a heck of a lot about myself and our medical education system along the way.
 
Lol okay I guess I deserved these responses by bringing my questions, concerns, and remarks to the pre-osteo crowd. Why does everyone here get so butt hurt when someone brings actual concerns about the DO profression? Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be.

I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.
You should really go to MD school. Seriously, you'll never be happy as a DO and we really don't want a bunch of also-rans as colleagues.
 
I don't need to be grateful for an acceptance. I earned it on my own.
Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.

You're probably lucky to have gotten into any medical school with this attitude and if any of this came out in your secondaries its really no surprise you didn't get into MD.

You are in for one big wakeup call in your not-so-distant future kid. Goodluck, you're going to need it.
 
Matt,

A lot of people, including myself, have told you that you essentially in for a rude awakening. What people are saying to you is exactly what many said to me many years ago, but I did not listen. Just like they said I would, I struggled and life was difficult for me as I figured things out.

Not until I received the mentorship and kick in the pants (pants used because this does not seem to be the appropriate forum for cursing) that I needed, did I start down the correct path. What I am saying is please listen, we may seem like we are being jerks, but believe me when I say its because you have been accepted into a medical school- and we want you to succeed and reflect well upon the profession that we have chosen to pursue or spend our lives perfecting.

If you have any specific questions on mentorship or what you need to do to succeed and are willing to listen to advice that you may not be pleased to hear, please do not hesitate to PM me. As I have said, you are obviously intelligent enough to get accepted in to a medical school- now you just need the attitude that will lead you to success.
 
I'm sorry if I offended any of you. Some of you may have been in my position at some point, others maybe not, but wrestling with the thoughts of your future can sometimes bring out the nasty. Thank you for helping me keep perspective on this matter.

Best of luck to all!
 
Lol okay I guess I deserved these responses by bringing my questions, concerns, and remarks to the pre-osteo crowd. Why does everyone here get so butt hurt when someone brings actual concerns about the DO profression? Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be.

I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school.


I'm not understanding how you cannot do these things if you go to a DO school.😕
 
OP, you sound like a complete douche. I for one am thrilled that we will not be classmates in the fall. But I imagine your classmates at Midwestern will recognize you right away.
 
Lol okay I guess I deserved these responses by bringing my questions, concerns, and remarks to the pre-osteo crowd. Why does everyone here get so butt hurt when someone brings actual concerns about the DO progression? Yet your title is "initial disappointment."

Just because you're gung-ho because you got into an osteopathic school and are so proud of yourself, doesn't mean I have to be. You should be

I'm going to enjoy the privileges and abilities that I will earn through my own hard work. Even if you work hard, if your attitude is bad, attending or residents will not want to teach you more.

I'm going to enjoy that paycheck; I earned it. Sometimes you will be helping patients that won't even contribute to your pay check.

I'm going to enjoy people thanking me; I earned it. Really? There will be patients who won't even thank you.

I'm going to enjoy how easy it will be to find a job, how easy it is to relocate in this profession, and the respect that I will get. I earned it. Huh? What about fields like pathology or radiology where you will be hard pressed to find work unless you have a fellowship, even then that is not a guarantee you will find work.

I will also have the ability to help someone in crisis every time I go to work; that is pretty cool and something I'll enjoy as well. I wish to god this was the only sentence you wrote.

What I'm not going to do is be eternally grateful to be accepted to medical school. They could have picked a number of reasons to not give you an acceptance. It could be as simple as not liking your personality. It is not just about handwork it is also about gratefulness for those opportunities given to you. Faculty, attendings, and residents, like not only hardworking people, but people with the right attitude.
 
I'll be honest. While I wasn't as bad as the OP, I had some doubts about DO school when I started. I was worried about there being bias because of the letters.

Fast Foward to now: I stuck it out and busted my butt. I now realize that outside of a small portion of the elderly generation of physicians, there is virtually no bias against DOs. I matched into a US news top 30 MD surgical subspecialty residency program. I would not have been this successful if I would have chosen my local MD school.

Message: Be grateful and happy to have been wanted somewhere. Work hard and be as good as your fellow MD applicants for residency and you can be whatever you want, where ever you want.
 
I'll be honest. While I wasn't as bad as the OP, I had some doubts about DO school when I started. I was worried about there being bias because of the letters.

Fast Foward to now: I stuck it out and busted my butt. I now realize that outside of a small portion of the elderly generation of physicians, there is virtually no bias against DOs. I matched into a US news top 30 MD surgical subspecialty residency program. I would not have been this successful if I would have chosen my local MD school.

Message: Be grateful and happy to have been wanted somewhere. Work hard and be as good as your fellow MD applicants for residency and you can be whatever you want, where ever you want.

That's amazing to hear! Out of sheer curiosity, why do you think you wouldn't have been as successful had you chosen your local MD school? Congrats on your success thus far!
 
That's amazing to hear! Out of sheer curiosity, why do you think you wouldn't have been as successful had you chosen your local MD school? Congrats on your success thus far!

Really 3 reasons. 1) I had lived in the same area my whole life and needed to get away to grow up. 2) I would have been too distracted by family and friends in my hometown much like I was throughout college. 3) The driving force to succeed was so strong. I felt like I had a chip on my shoulder because I was a DO. I wanted to show everyone that I was as good as any other med student. I realize now that there was no reason to have a chip on my shoulder, but none-the-less it was there and it really motivated me to match at a program that would make me feel "successful" (aka well respected academic residency). Granted, I realize now how stupid and immature I was at the time. My definition of success was very short sighted. Because I had my eyes on the prize (residency) the whole time, I overlooked a lot of my accomplishments along the way. Getting into any US medical school is a major accomplishment, getting through Step 1 is another huge accomplishment, and matching is another - honestly the greatest thing I've ever done in my life. Anyone who graduates and matches from any US med school to deserves an epic high five because it is not easy no matter how smart or prepared you think you are. I have no doubt that I would not have matched to as great a program (maybe not matched period) if I had went to my local MD school.

PS: Sorry for bragging, but screw it I worked hard. This is my time lol.
 
If I were you, I would defer that acceptance and reapply again, especially to my parent's med school. You will always have those 2 letters hanging over you. I have friends in your exact situation, and it never ends well. They walk around like they got a small ***** and are subsequently angry at the world for no logical reason.

Dumbest advice on this thread. Not sure if you know how hard it is to get into school, if you didn't get in now it will be harder next year since you have to show a great deal of improvement between now and June when applying.

Also with the merger going on, by the time you graduate it won't matter if you are an MD or DO.
 
Dumbest advice on this thread. Not sure if you know how hard it is to get into school, if you didn't get in now it will be harder next year since you have to show a great deal of improvement between now and June when applying.

Also with the merger going on, by the time you graduate it won't matter if you are an MD or DO.
What does the merger have to do with anything here? The ACGME aren't the ones deciding who to interview and who not to. If you think the DO bias is going to *magically* disappear then you are in for one hell of a ride my friend.
 
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