Hmm, does altruism truly exist? I do not know if there is such an easy answer to this question. I think an integral part of being human is the notion of the self, and it is hard to imagine any real moment where someone can be selfless.
Everyone has their own reasons for volunteering their time, and on the surface sure it may look selfless. But underneath, I know a lot of people who do it merely for the sake of buffing their application, or resume, or to get some honor or award. Even to a lesser degree, the simple self-satisfaction of volunteering can be construed to serving your own means. After all, theoretically if I feel good about how I am volunteering for the Red Cross, then I am still a little selfish in a way. I'm doing something that makes me feel good and it just happens to serve other people. Some would regard those who say "I like to help people" as altruistic, but maybe the reality is they're just helping themselves.
I think in the end, real altruism is something where you are not thanked, and you don't think twice about it, and it's something where you really helped someone. In my lifetime, I've had a few realizations where I was startled by the fact that I was "altruistic." One of these was over the summer during my SMEP program. A friend of mine at school needed a ride to Kroger's for groceries, and it was out of my way and all but that didn't bother me. I gave him a lift and literally did not think twice about it at all. At the end of the summer, he wanted to get a picture with me and I'm smiling with him and all and he totally tells me, out of the blue, how grateful he was for that ride to Kroger's. And I go, "huH? OH. haha."
Anyway, Shredder, sometimes something as simple and stupid as that is all it takes, man. You don't have to be the Gold Star Volunteer of the Year, with mission journeys to Africa and Ecuador. It's not what you do, it's that you do it, and I'm sure there have been times in your life, and you probably did not even realize it, where you were the guy who helped someone out. Even if it means showing your peers how to solve that differential equation, or giving a buck to a thirsty friend for a soda-pop.
And yes, I did just use the word "soda-pop"
