I feel your pain
Trismegistus4. An appropriate ADHD evaluation requires a lot of grunt work that is poorly reimbursed if at all. I did this when I first started my practice and had the time, but in most cases, I find people have already made up their minds and just leave angry they're not getting 70mg of Vyvanse with 10mg Adderall IR five times a day for break through (jk). Some reasonable protocols you can apply which could weed some folks out who truly are not in it for the right reason include random UDS (with confirmation as you can sometimes get false positives) and getting an ROI to speak with someone who can give a good reliable developmental history. If they refuse, then I say I'm not able to give them an appropriate evaluation (my understanding is there is data that shows how we see things now can strongly distort our perceptions of ourselves in the past). You can also try to apply the Barkley and I believe there is a way you can bill for that as an MD but again, I would inform them I really need a person I can speak with who can give a reliable history. I also would not tell them specifically I am getting a Barkley and just say I will be using some scales (because some patients will try to get their family to give scripted answers), I just say I need to gather collateral and slip in the Barkley questions while also asking about other psychiatric symptoms. But it ultimately boils down to getting a good developmental history. Also, another place where the truth really comes out as to if they really do have ADHD is if they truly have impairment in 2+ settings. Most of the people who came to me just complained about work and apparently everything else was great...that doesn't really match up well. I'm just looking forward to setting up my own shop, you've probably seen my other threads. I'm getting a nice sexy website up and found a sleek and smokin' hot building to rent from full of other medical specialties. I'm in good enough financial standing that I can afford the high end look of the place and I'll be subspecializing in depression, anxiety, some PTSD, applying TMS. I'm just telling folks that sorry, ADHD is not my specialty, but here is a list of people who may be able to help and have a nice day.
Bumping this thread because I have a question for @randomdoc1 and any others who have decided to adopt a policy of simply not "doing" ADHD: are your referrals screened? That is, when a new patient calls to make an initial appointment, are then queried as to the reason for the appointment, and, if their reply mentions ADHD, told then and there that you are not the doctor for them, and not put on your schedule in the first place? If not, how far out are you booked? If the patient just made the appointment last week, and you wind up having to tell them to their face at the appointment that "ADHD is not my specialty, but here is a list of people who may be able to help and have a nice day," I can see that, but if not, how do you deal with a steady stream of people who have been waiting 3 months to see you for this and it's finally their big day to score "their" Adderall and start their brand new life?
Also, how does everyone in this thread handle established patients, whom you have been seeing for a long time for some diagnosis other than ADHD, who suddenly start bringing up ADHD concerns? This has come up in several cases for me recently: someone I've been seeing for depression, bipolar, PTSD, or something else, for 6 months or more, stable and well-controlled by now, and who never complained of inattention or poor concentration before, and/or never told me, even during my thorough initial intake, about a childhood history of ADHD, will come in one day for what I think is going to be routine follow-up, and instead sit down and start right in with "OMG, Doc! I never told you this before, but when I was a kid, I was diagnosed with ADHD and put on Ritalin, did well, got off it in high school because I thought I didn't need it anymore, but my mom's been pointing out how I don't even sit down to eat and am always pacing and fidgeting, and I can't concentrate at work or get anything done around the house! I need to be back on ADHD meds!" or "I was never diagnosed with ADHD as a kid, but since I saw you last time, I can't concentrate or pay attention to anything, and I started researching ADHD online and everything I've read fits me to a T, and my mother/sister/aunt/boss/professor/girlfriend/pastor/personal trainer/AA sponsor/tennis doubles partner/mailman/infant son/dog all tell me they're sure I have it and need to be on Adderall!" And I'm totally at a loss, because this person has gone from zero to sixty, from person who never mentioned any concerns for ADHD, inattention, or poor concentration before, to grade-A aggressive stimulant-demander in between routine checkups. I've seen 2-3 long term patients of mine in the past couple of weeks who have done this. Do you guys get this very often, and if so, how do you approach it?
Gee thanks, for that tidbit.

I was trying to compliment you on your self-awareness. My point was there are also psychiatrists with
countertransference who over diagnose/prescribe, in my opinion. There can be a flavor of that in these threads sometimes.
Sorry, I see what you meant now. I don't know why I misinterpreted your post. I must have read only part of it because of my ADHD.