

I have a black suite, with a bright red tie...is that a bit over the top?

What of a pure black suit with a white shirt and a black tie? Just keeping it simple. Assuming for a black guy, no offense but i'm black and certain color looks better than others...?
It screams arrogance to me... as though the individual is skipping straight to the white coat ceremony... cocky is the worst thing you can portray!!!!
Actually, for a guy, I think you should wear a normal tie, but make it a little (really just a little) more colorful than necessary--it'll show a splash of personality and make you stand out a bit more from everyone else dressed in muted colors all over.