That's really sweet, OPD. I wish someone at my last interview had given me this impression of hoping that I'd pick them. It was actually at my top choice place, and the PD/PC were very nice to me, but never gave me the vibe of "we hope you pick us". The interview went very well in my opinion, and I know I was friendly and fluent and I enjoyed all my interviews. But when we talked about places I had applied, the PD had mentioned "Go check them out those places and try to get a good feel of places that would suit your interests and be the best fit for you". 😳 There was never any mention of "We hope you'll decide to come here and be a part of our program."
It was a good day with friendly people, but I didn't feel courted by them or that they specifically wanted me. (Though I do have to say that the chief resident was awesome, and super nice and sweet to me.) I had even mentioned at my interview to the PD that they were at the top of my list, and the PD just smiled. When I emailed the PC and PD afterwards to say thank you, the PC wrote a polite reply, but the PD didn't respond. I don't know if that's a bad sign or not. I wonder if the same PC/PD would be more expressive of "we want you!" to candidates that they plan to rank highly.
Well, this was 1 of my 14 interviews (thus far), so I think I will get better at interviewing (even though I think I did a very decent job with the last one - don't think there was anything specific I could have improved on). Although the place I mentioned is still my top choice, I know I'll probably get swayed to rank other places high on my list if other places court me more extensively. It's really nice to feel wanted by the programs. Even the places that go out of their way and pay for hotels,... that really means a lot and is special. I don't know how much it should weigh when deciding who to rank, but it definitely makes us feel catered towards and valued as potential future residents.