shroomysoup said:
I Should I just be myself or act formally?
I suggest the "stone-henge" interviewee style. I can see why you're confused about how to act during an interview, you're struggling to decide whether to act like yourself, or someone they'd actually want to hire.
Since i'm sure if you acted like yourself, you may not get hired. This is why you mimic the stonehenge style, to get a guaranteed job. Hey, who cares if its false pretenses, job = job am i right? lol!
So the stonehenge (im sure this is available on google) is basically you go in there without displaying emotion. This is tricky, but it can only work for you: you don't show nerves, you don't show embarassment. you are a rock, you are an island. Listen to simon and garfunkel before the interview to get into the mood.
Then whenever they try to test you to see if youre not suited for the job, you will give off 0 negative emotion. Nothing negative = Something Positive!! am i right? lol!!
And, who knows what positive characterisitics employers may want, everyone's individual! So if you displayed the wrong characteristic, it may be negative. But with my "stonehenge" technique, you cannot go wrong, anywhere.
Good luck to you my solid friend! pardon the pun lol!!