Hi,
I can tell you about my situation if that will help. I am currently a student at Tufts right now. I totally understand that money is a concern when deciding what school to attend. I had some other choices which were much then Tufts and even a really goodstate school. In the end I choose to come here for a lot of reasons. Yes money was a factor for me as I don't have rich relatives. I have taken out the full amount for federal loans and private loans to cover the rest. Being in Boston does not help as it is a bit pricey. You know what? I am very glad I am here. I absolutely love it here in Boston and would if I had it to do it again, i would still do the same. For me, the experience was more important then money. Sure I'll be in debt when I get out more so then the average med student, but I have made really good friends and alot of my close undergrad friends live in Boston. I also enjoy Tufts alot. I don't think about the money that much. I watch my spending and enjoy the exp here. I am lucky that I do not have a undergrad debt as some do, so that does help. My advice is go where you'll be happy most, the money will not be as a big deal. If you have any questions, just email or IM me.