Humph. I go years without accidentally stumbling into Pre-Allo. Excuse me, Pre-Medical - MD (when did the name change?). And one would have to be insane to intentionally visit this part of the Interwebz. But this thread (and a few other threads re: overcoming adversity) have actually given me a little bit of hope that I didn't know I needed about my future. So thanks, SDN. Every now and then, there's a bolus of joy and strength I get from this place on top of the usual friendships and laughs.
I guess I wasn't aware that [some] PhD acceptances were somewhat a "buyer's market" or that good grad students were hard to find. I guess one would have to be a little bit crazy (I mean, dedicated!) to abandon a normal full-time job that pays well and live like a poor graduate student for the unknown certainty of finishing in 5ish years. I can see how that would make graduate programs less picky.
The networking and "who you know" angle is solid gold advice in industry -- it's how I've gotten my last several jobs, on top of developing good rapport and professional reputation over time. It doesn't surprise me that it works in graduate admissions either, but that definitely gives some hope. (I've also seen it work in med school admissions as well -- such as your mentor knowing the Dean and highly recommending you -- but it's still tough.)
Question: Does this hold true for the "techier" PhD programs like Biomedical Engineering/Bioengineering, Bioinformatics vs. the traditional BCPM/biochem sciences? I'm interested in applying some of my computer sciencey and IT background to human medicine disciplines and maybe BME if I can brush up on my math and physics. I just don't know how competitive those programs are vs. a generic biology PhD.
I haven't narrowed down my graduate interests enough -- nor am I looking to apply for any programs in the near term -- but was just curious. I am lucky/blessed enough to have worked with a colleague who is now a PI of his own lab, and it's really interesting neuro-imaging fMRI stuff, but the only hesitation I'm getting is that it's in a Psychology department vs. a harder natural science or engineering department. But the "who you know" thing holds very true: He was essentially posting a job listing on Facebook for fresh meat PhD students to apply, and he said "Yeah dude, go for it! It's easier to teach a programmer how to do some science than teach a typical science nerd how to program." (Is a Psych PhD what I want for a future career? I'm leaning towards "No.")
Sorry, I'm rambling. Best of luck, OP and to anyone who finds this thread who is juggling career and training interests. To any young whippersnappers out there who aren't sure, it's SUPER important to get exposure to both the clinical/medical field as well as the graduate/PhD/research fields and find out what really would make you happiest in the long term instead of simply going, "Meh, I guess I'll do the MD/DO thing even though my heart's not really in it." Don't set yourself up for decades of mediocrity! I've definitely run into my fair share of physicians who simply followed the path their parents wanted but can't wait to "get out of medicine."