A long distance relationship?
Be realistic. Med skule is rigorous, not punitive.
Maintaining relationships depends of your social skills and commitment, not your choice of profession.
In med skule my relationship survived 1 year lomg distance, 3 years in town marriage,1 year overlap spouse in med skule (me in residency), one year pregnancy (wife's 4th year med skule).
After med skule 3 more kids (2 with both of us residents), combined 2.5 residencies(7 years consecutive post-grad training), over 40 years combined practice, and one additional degree (MBA).
Be realistic. Med skule is rigorous, not punitive.
Maintaining relationships depends of your social skills and commitment, not your choice of profession.
In med skule my relationship survived 1 year lomg distance, 3 years in town marriage,1 year overlap spouse in med skule (me in residency), one year pregnancy (wife's 4th year med skule).
After med skule 3 more kids (2 with both of us residents), combined 2.5 residencies(7 years consecutive post-grad training), over 40 years combined practice, and one additional degree (MBA).
A long distance relationship?
I purposely stayed away from a relationship because it is not fair IMO for your significant other. I find it selfish. I can wait at least till rotations or even post residency if I feel it is necessary.
I purposely stayed away from a relationship because it is not fair IMO for your significant other. I find it selfish. I can wait at least till rotations or even post residency if I feel it is necessary.
we're going to medical school to become physicians. whether or not relationships last during our schooling is irrelevant. the end goal of a medical education is to become a physician, not to become married or keep a relationship alive. i'm always a fan of leaving the personal quirks of life out of the workplace.
we're going to medical school to become physicians. whether or not relationships last during our schooling is irrelevant. the end goal of a medical education is to become a physician, not to become married or keep a relationship alive. i'm always a fan of leaving the personal quirks of life out of the workplace.
says the pre-med? ok.we're going to medical school to become physicians. whether or not relationships last during our schooling is irrelevant. the end goal of a medical education is to become a physician, not to become married or keep a relationship alive. i'm always a fan of leaving the personal quirks of life out of the workplace.
Is it possible to maintain a relationship in med school?
A long distance relationship?
Took the words right out of my mouth. It's exceptionally depressing to see people so slavishly devoted to only one thing, especially when that one thing is a job.says the pre-med? ok.
there's more to life than your career. I hope you realize that some day before it's too late.
we're going to medical school to become physicians. whether or not relationships last during our schooling is irrelevant. the end goal of a medical education is to become a physician, not to become married or keep a relationship alive. i'm always a fan of leaving the personal quirks of life out of the workplace.
+1 to the divorce column
A long distance relationship?
we're going to medical school to become physicians. whether or not relationships last during our schooling is irrelevant. the end goal of a medical education is to become a physician, not to become married or keep a relationship alive. i'm always a fan of leaving the personal quirks of life out of the workplace.
Someone is going to end up alone...
I purposely stayed away from a relationship because it is not fair IMO for your significant other. I find it selfish. I can wait at least till rotations or even post residency if I feel it is necessary.
A lot of your classmates will date each other. Are you going to be doing long distance and both in med school?
At least you guys will understand what the other is going through. If you have a chance to see each other regularly, if your relationship is strong (e.g. good communication skills, not jealous, committed to each other) and you both put effort forth, it should be fine.There's still a chance that we'll end up going to the same school, but yes, we would both be med students at different schools. Obviously it would be ideal to go to schools in the same area, but since she's a year younger that's a bit difficult to do.