...So even that FP making 90K is beating the 10 year engineering veteran. If you think docs don't make good money, you're crazy...
Physicians do make good money but the only engineers who work in the 50K range are the ones who never improve themselves (PE license) and never work for themselves. The money in engineering is in consulting and if you work as hard at your engineering business as you will for medical school and residency, you can do very well. I billed between 40 and 60 bucks an hour as self-employed structural and foundation engineer and I generally had enough work to keep me busy.
Seriously, if you think that residency, not to mention medical school and hundreds of thousands in debt, is worth it for $90,000 a year you need to rethink your opinion. I was probably netting $70,000 per year my last year in engineering (after expenses) and if all I could look forward to was $90,000...well...I'd be kicking myself in the ass right about now.
As some of you know, before I matched into Emergency Medicine I had to scramble and ended up in Family Medicine. My wife cried. She knew instinctively that all of the poverty, the hard work, the time away from the family which might be worth it for what an EM attending makes is so not worth it for the typical starting salary of an FP. Eight years of sliding back to make just a fraction more, if that, what I could have done as an engineer without the aggravation, the humilation, the sleep deprivation, and the general chicken-**** of medical training.
(I matched into EM last year after bailing from a certain flaming wreck which, in the interests of civility we will not mention here but which I understand is being raised from the bottom of the lake into which it crashed and is going to be refurbished.)
You folks are crazy. If medicine didn't pay so well (most specialties) it would be a dog because the training blows. I have had Q3 call, for example, for the last three weeks and I am physically ill when I go home, haven't seen the sun in a month except from my car window, and I get treated like a slave and worse by most of services on which I rotate. I have not had a day off in two week either except if you want to call a lying, cheating "post call" day as a day off (which your service often will).
It is almost impossible to eat right, exercise, or have a normal life as a resident. The schedule is so varied that you can't plan anything except in the broadest sense (i.e., I will get my car fixed when I have vacation next month).
And a prememptive "**** you" to anybody who says, "Well, it's only four years. After that it will be different."
No kidding. But you are much too casual about time and wave that four (or five, six, or seven) year around like it's four weeks or four months. Four years is a long time to be somebody's prison bitch.
And yes, to answer the OP's question, it is really that bad and don't let anybody tell you otherwise.