Is it the right choice?

[Alinaz]

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My parents have searched out a guy whos a practising pyschiatrist. I'm a medico just done with my MBBS in India given my step, but dint score well so quit the idea of goin to US. Well now i dunno if marryin this shrink is a good idea? what if he reads all my thoughts and brings into practise all his psychic knowledge to torture me?may be to know bout my past n stuff.......ah that thought is sickenning. Perhaps im unable to decide now, my parents demand a reply from me what do i do? 😕

 

[DownonthePharm]

Mmmm, he cant read your thoughts. He may however read too much into your behaviours.

I think you are confusing phyciatrist with physic.

Although a physic phyciatrist would be an interesting career.

(I realize I probably spelled phyciatrist wrong several times, but dont feel like spell checking)

 

[LADoc00]

My parents have searched out a guy whos a practising pyschiatrist. I'm a medico just done with my MBBS in India given my step, but dint score well so quit the idea of goin to US. Well now i dunno if marryin this shrink is a good idea? what if he reads all my thoughts and brings into practise all his psychic knowledge to torture me?may be to know bout my past n stuff.......ah that thought is sickenning. Perhaps im unable to decide now, my parents demand a reply from me what do i do? 😕

Not sure how the whole Indian arranged marriage works BUT I wasnt aware you had a choice. Thought you had to marry em because the deal was sealed when you a kid or something...also your post sounds kinda trollish: "what if he reads all my thoughts and brings into practise all his psychic knowledge to torture me", you sound almost autistic..might be the only guy you get to marry(or have sex with for that matter). Would weigh my options carefully there.

 

[Alinaz]

Not sure how the whole Indian arranged marriage works BUT I wasnt aware you had a choice. Thought you had to marry em because the deal was sealed when you a kid or something...also your post sounds kinda trollish: "what if he reads all my thoughts and brings into practise all his psychic knowledge to torture me", you sound almost autistic..might be the only guy you get to marry(or have sex with for that matter). Would weigh my options carefully there.

Hmmm................ well that dint help me get the solution neways thanx 😀

 

[peppy]

I think most Americans would say not to marry someone you don't know well enough to feel confident about since our culture doesn't do the arranged marriage thing, but we can't really answer for you. Good luck on coming up with a solution you're happy with.

 

[Andes87]

I realize how Indian marriage is, and despite what your parents may think and feel about this guy, its probably a good idea to really meet and get to know him before you give your parents a solid answer. Some arranged marriages become unhappy as a result of the initial rift between them that they never overcame... Just be as informed as you can. I highly doubt he's going to do some crazy voodoo on your mind... He's a psychiatrist, not a witch doctor or a psychic. Good luck!

My parents have searched out a guy whos a practising pyschiatrist. I'm a medico just done with my MBBS in India given my step, but dint score well so quit the idea of goin to US. Well now i dunno if marryin this shrink is a good idea? what if he reads all my thoughts and brings into practise all his psychic knowledge to torture me?may be to know bout my past n stuff.......ah that thought is sickenning. Perhaps im unable to decide now, my parents demand a reply from me what do i do? 😕

 

[Alinaz]

Thanks i'll keep that in mind. 😀