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And, yes, I'm excited. Thing is, I'm applying for this upcoming cycle, and the baby (if it comes to term) probably won't be due until September, meaning that I'm looking to either get accepted and defer, or end up interviewing while 9 months pregnant (at least I'll be near a hospital) or with baby. Thing is, I haven't gotten any acceptances. My top choice school placed me on their "priority" WL, and I'm WL at two other schools. I have some interviews coming up.
This isn't my first pregnancy. I had a miscarriage in November. My husband and I got married earlier in 2012, and b/c of the pregnancy/marriage/miscarriage, I delayed my applications quite a bit. But we've decided that we are ready to start a family, and apparently it took me no time to get pregnant again.
I'd prefer to be accepted into my top choice and defer (if they were to let me). But I'm debating on canceling my upcoming interviews. I'm exhausted from the pregnancy, and, b/c they're not my top choice, should I bother? After all I may have to go through this application cycle again.
But. I'm so frightened that I may miscarry again, and, not to mention the heartache of that experience, I would be putting off my applications another year.
Any thoughts on my confusing situation?
This isn't my first pregnancy. I had a miscarriage in November. My husband and I got married earlier in 2012, and b/c of the pregnancy/marriage/miscarriage, I delayed my applications quite a bit. But we've decided that we are ready to start a family, and apparently it took me no time to get pregnant again.
I'd prefer to be accepted into my top choice and defer (if they were to let me). But I'm debating on canceling my upcoming interviews. I'm exhausted from the pregnancy, and, b/c they're not my top choice, should I bother? After all I may have to go through this application cycle again.
But. I'm so frightened that I may miscarry again, and, not to mention the heartache of that experience, I would be putting off my applications another year.
Any thoughts on my confusing situation?