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Yet so true. It is amazing how many people trash talk behind other's people back.LOL that's so general though!
LOL that's so general though!
Be nice to everyone, don't talk behind people's backs, you never know who's help you'll need in the future.
Work hard, play hard and enjoy the journey.
if you put others before and value others more than yourself then you should get along with everyone else just fine...
remember that once you graduate and leave, you're basically never going to have professors to guide you or bail you out...so get out of your comfort zone as much as possible during your clinical education...don't be too afraid to make a mistake.
for more immediate and relevant advice, get a photographic atlas like Rohen's for gross anatomy...it's better than drawings and it's helpful to look at actual cadaver pictures for when you're not in the cadaver lab...some schools like to just drop you in the water and let you fend for yourself for preclinical education. that's fine just find an upperclassman to show you the ropes for sim lab. their advice is immensely helpful and have filled in a lot of gaps that faculty may have missed.
if you want to specialize, start showing your face at the specialty departments NOW. some specialties love to see people who show early interest.
remember that a bunch of us went through the same bs that you're about to go through and we all made it. it's going to be hard but put in the effort and you'll do fine.
if you put others before and value others more than yourself then you should get along with everyone else just fine...
i know i do it for the feelies. i don't see what's so wrong with it that you would make it into an argument against this world view. my days are generally better and cheery if i start my morning by reminding myself of this mantra. it's literally the cheapest way to get my daily dose of dopamine. some say this feel good response to doing nice things to each other is an evolutionary adaptation that social animals like apes, monkeys, and humans have developed.besides mother teresa, who values others more than themselves? That is almost impossible and there is no way you would get anywhere doing that.
Every action we do is a selfish one, otherwise you wouldn't do it. Hold a door open for someone? Well, you did it because you wanted to be nice - you benefit from this. Donate money to a charity? that makes you feel good and gives you happiness, or alleviates guilt you may otherwise harbor.