Leaving a significant other behind

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Good luck to everyone who is leaving their SO behind, even if it is just for a little while. I started to cry when I was telling a friend how I'm so happy my husband is coming with me and how it would be so hard to do this without him. hey- it's a very emotional time!
good luck!
 
Yes, my fiance is not going to move to IA until winter or so, so on top of starting my first year of vet school I am not going to see him for some time 🙁 But I was really lucky in the fact that he is totally excited to move to IA (we are both horsepeople so the Midwest is a good place for us). Good luck to all of you who are moving away from your SO, it's hard!
 
I, too, do not have to leave for another few years.
The hardest thing will leaving my dog with in my parent's house 🙁 i dont know if i can do that but also I've had a boyfriend for 2.5 years and I dont know if we'll go the same path at all. We live in wisconsin so i might stay here for school...or follow him to Alabama. It's so sad even thinking about it.

At least most of you have your spec. someone coming within a year 🙂
 
Hi everyone. I made it to Perth, Western Australia and start school in about two weeks. Leaving my husband and two dogs back in the states was the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life and it is still proving to be difficult even though I've been here for 10 days already. It is going to be a very tough (emotionally) five months before I get to see them again. All I have to say is internet rocks! Without it, I don't think I could have done this. I've been able to talk to my husband twice a day through Google Talk. It has been a life saver. Hang in there everyone and keep posting inspirational stories.
 
glad you made it mochavet - hang in there. before you know it, school will be so busy, it will be hard to find time for those you love.
 
Thanks Wildfocus! I can't wait for school to start.🙂
 
A couple of things...

You made the right decision in deciding to go to vet school despite the ultimatum your boyfriend gave you. I'm just now at the point where I'm ready to apply for vet school because I let my EX tell me what to do, and what not to do (vet school) several years ago. Clearly, you can see, she still became the ex, and I am now 4 years later in my life.
Secondly, as a guy, I need to defend us. We're not all horrible ball-scratchers. 🙂
 
Yes jason you are absolutely right. There are good guys (and girls) out there. Hearing your story makes me thankful for my husband. I'm sorry you had to go through that but congratulations on finding your path.
 
If I attend next fall, my children and I will be moving away from my husband, who will be doing training for the Marine Corps at the time. When he finishes that training, he will move to wherever I might be (I have to make sure that wherever I attend school has a job market for him). If it's the following year that I start school, I won't have to leave him behind at all. I'm not that worried about it. We've done long distance. He's leaving next month for 10 weeks of training and I'll be staying put where we are for that time. He was gone for a deployment from last Sept to this past April. Then in June, he spent 3 weeks doing training in Australia. So I've done it before. It's not going to be easy, but I know it's do-able. There will be times in the future when he leaves for more training, and possibly another deployment. When we were just dating, he left for college while I had two more years of high school left. I moved close to him to attend college, and half-way through my first year, he left for another part of the country because of a Marine Corps activation. I haven't sat down and calculated what percentage of our time together or our marriage that we have actually spent thousands of miles apart, but I'm sure it's pretty significant.
 
Horrible? No. Ball Scratchers? *Raises Hand*

🙂

Anyway, I'm 25 and never seem to find myself in a relationship that doesn't end up being long distance eventually. So far, and not to discourage anyone, they have all failed. The reasons? There are a lot.

So I'm a week away from the Start of classes. I have a really awesome G/F right now, and we have already been apart for 6 months and things are still going well.

You can only enjoy the here and now, worrying about the future can only make you miserable.

Good luck to everyone. We are all in the same boat and I wish the best for all.
 
I have survived being 10,000 miles from my husband and dogs for a month now. Woohooo!! It was not easy but I did it and things are going well considering. I have also survived my first week of vet school and it went really well. I think I made the right decision and will do well here. I have tried to make things easier by creating a blog and writing in it frequently so that my family and friends can keep track of what I am up to. I would like to give everyone on here the opportunity to do the same so here is the link: http://emily.thebarricks.com. Read it if you like and leave me comments too. Good luck to all of you!
 
I am glad things are going well, mochavet. I look forward to reading your blog. 🙂
 
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