Yaah, 2121115, KluverB, xlilangel713, gbwillner- thank you so much for sharing your opinions.
My take on that is that, well, your destiny depends on you. I refuse to believe that if I don't match to "top notch" I won't get the skills I need to excell at the speciality. It might take an extra fellowship, but hey, who is counting these days. It is the motivation, the desire to excell and learn and the passion that makes us into who we are. That is why we read on a bus, get up at 4 am to read and preview and get motivated from hard work. There is also a component ppl hate to discuss - your personal iq in the world of people with MDs and DOs. Yeah, some ppl are just smarter than the others and have better pattern recognition skills- this is why at times you have stellar path ppl coming out of no name residencies or med schools. They just should have never been there in the first place, perhaps, but it did not stop them from achieving their goals. Yet...what do we look at first when we evaluate the residency? I look at the faculty, and where they trained), so superficial of me)
So, I do realize that there is a huge, important component in training that comes off where you train. Cases you see. People's way of teaching. That excellency that inspires and motivates. The once a lifetime opportunity to achieve your full potential. IMHO, I am not ready to throw this opportunity out of the window, and the last thing I am concerned about is having to do extra work in the grossing room. Not to mention it makes your life easier in a long run. But guess what, I do refuse to walk into a malignant environment ( meaning emotionally/ ethically) if I know this is the case in the institution. Because this is one thing that actually can prevent you from excelling. It would affect me, no doubt, and I got a pretty tough skin.
This is why I have serious doubts about The program X... I do not know yet. As scientist say " more research is necessary". I did contact the residents regarding the preview times/their satisfaction with the training, and still waiting for the reply. Oh well, if I won't hear from them I would address my questions to the staff. What do I have to loose?