I'm sorry, but this whole post wreaks of an emotional response over the unfairness of an unwanted pregnancy. Your viewpoint does not extend any further than the mother - and by extension yourself, and while your first sentence makes an attempt to show that you actually take the child into consideration, it is pretty clear that this is only a veil you put in place to hide (from yourself?) your selfish reasons for being pro choice. If a gun was put to the head of even the most abused unwanted child, offering them instant escape for the terrible life you assume they have, how many do you think would choose death? Do not misunderstand what I'm saying as a lack of empathy for pregnant women, because their burdens do hold a great deal of weight, however I don't think you could reasonably argue that these burdens carry the gravity of death, or rather the lifting of these burdens are better than a life. The lives of foster children in America are far more blessed than most lives abroad, and the notion you're implying, of you deciding unilaterally that the entirety of their life is worth less than the nine months of inconvenience you'll suffer while pregnant, is appallingly selfish.
To be frank, the attitude you and others are displaying is the product of the spoiled culture of the west, where we shrug our shoulders and buy products from companies which take advantage of the poverty over others because it is marginally cheaper. If we do not have to see suffering/harm directly, it bothers us very little, especially if we directly feel the personal benefits that distant suffering gives us; out of sight, out of mind. I don't think any of us can truly appreciate the gravity of the life lost in an abortion, but we sure can fully feel the convenience that comes with not having the burden of carrying/rearing a child. Take an instance to think over your entire life, every memory, every great experience, every terrible experience, everyone you know, everyone you've effected, what it felt like to have your first kiss, to fall in love, the pain of losing that love, to look into the eyes of your child, to accomplish your goals, and everything else. Appreciate your life for a second, for what it is, it's whole, and then remember that this is what you are saying you should have the right to take away; this is not some small damn thing.