Whining?
In any case, I use my real name at the medical school (outside the medical school I have met literally 3 Indian people here. IIRC there are suburbs where Indians concentrate themselves in my city, unfortunately they are far from me.
Look Anasto, I like you and I appreciate your help, but my experience with using my real name has been far different from yours. Maybe it's because you're a girl, maybe it's because you're pretty, maybe it's because you're charismatic, I don't know. The difference exists.
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@DermViser : you're kinda making it sound like I can't trust any of my empirical evidence here.