I was diagnosed at 8 with systemic juvenile rheumatoid arthritis. It has been a long road since being diagnosed, my luck I was diagnosed with the best of the "types" of arthritis. I have pretty much outgrown all of the day to day pain, but I still get flare ups every couple of weeks, with big ones every couple of months. It is something that happens and you just learn to deal with it the best you can. My arthritis also caused me to have a heart surgery when I was 23, 4 months after my son was born, trust me it was not fun.
At the end of the day, I do not let my previous medical conditions limit what I can do in life. I want to be able to show my children that no matter what happens to you in life big or small, you can overcome it and grow stronger from it.
(ps- I don't believe in any of those natural remedies, take the appropriate medications and you will be much better off)