LOR Denied?

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Being a PhD student myself, I do not think you should ask a doctoral student.

Nor should you ask a professor who cannot comment on you in a more in depth manner.

I have been asked to write LOR for students who I have mentored before and my advice is really try to find someone who already has a degree and not only that, but a position as a professor. If they cannot cannot cannot find someone else, I'll write it (had to once) but believe me, there is very little weight to the letter when I sign it "Gella Bella, PhD Candidate"

PhD students are just that...still students. And while yes, I can definitely tell if my students are paying attention, if they are grasping the concepts, if they are interested in really learning or if they are just there to get the recommendation, a letter coming from me will not be held with the same weight as a letter coming from a professor. Its just the way it is.

Having a letter from a professor (mostly) ensures that there is a professional relationship between you two whereas a letter from a PhD student could be your boyfriend, your sisters boyfriend etc.

I personally think a letter from a PhD student is basically a waste of a LOR because it won't be evaluated the same and in my opinion will be just kind of read but not taken as seriously as one from a prof.

So I recommend trying to ask someone else. If you can talk about your research at an interview that is great in terms of showing you actually know your stuff and didn't just coast through a lab. Think about your advisor at school, a faculty member on a club or activity you're involved in(tri-beta?) etc. They may be able to write you a more personable letter than your PI, or who knows, maybe your PI will be willing to write the LOR but will ask for input from the students before he writes it. But definitely go for PhD/MD/DVM etc before PhD candidate.

Just my $0.02
 
Here's a question: I worked in a neuroscience lab for about three years. The lab director is pretty highly regarded in the field, but isn't all that sociable. The two doctoral students I worked for know me very well and have plenty of great things to say about me. Is it best to go with someone with an important title and name, but who's letter may not come off as that personal, or those who know me VERY well but technically don't even have their PhDs yet...?

The kicker is that your students and they are students. For all anyone knows they are your weekend drinking buddies who you have known your entire life and will write down whatever you tell them to say.

Safest bet is really going to be to have a faculty member write your educational LOR.
 
That is interesting. I'm glad that's the case because it would be so wrong for someone to agree and then write a negative one.
This really happened to me-
Years ago I asked the vet who I worked for in equine surgery dept at one of the top vet schools in the country to write me a letter of recommendation. He agreed and this was his letter-"I do not know this individual well enough to write a LOR." 😱....it was submitted to the college. 🙁
Now, when I ask for a LOR, I ask if they can feel they can write me a good LOR. There are worse things than being turned down for a LOR!
I can almost laugh about it now but not really.
 
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