Hi everyone, the name's, Lee, and the reason why I'm posting this thread is because I REALLY NEED HELP AND ADVICE WITH WHAT ACTIONS I SHOULD TAKE TO GET INTO DENTAL SCHOOL!! I'm in a world of hurt right now and would REALLY appreciate the advice, feedback & support from other students.
Before I start talking about my situation, here's a little bg info about myself:
So here's what happened: I SCREWED UP BIG TIME MY FIRST SEMESTER @ UOP (Junior Fall 2012)!! My grades were: D+, C, C- for Gen. Chem II, Gen. Physics I, & Biophysical Chem., respectively. These are the WORST grades I've ever had! I'm in a world of hurt right now; I feel like I've seriously RUINED my chances of getting into dental school and that I've let a lot of my friends and family down.
How did I get these grades? It was because I was UNMOTIVATED, LAZY, NOT HARD-WORKING; just straight up IRRESPONSIBLE. From middle to end of Fall 2012 semester, I felt like GIVING UP and not wanting to go to school anymore. I did not keep up with my daily studies, seek any help from friends, family, teachers; I did not utilize my time wells, and even purposely missed lectures and lab days.
You must now be wondering: so why did all of this happen? What caused my school performance to plummet? The reason is because of what my family and I were experiencing for the first time: losing our home to foreclosure. Throughout the WHOLE YEAR 2012, the majority of my time was devoted in trying to help my parents to not lose our home. I can literally WRITE A NOVEL about all the stuff that happened that year, but here's like a general timeline of events:
January - May 2012 (Spring 2012 sem @ CC) was helping parents come up with a backup plan (home mod. attempts, where will we live next?, is there any possible way we can avoid losing the house).
June - August 2012 were our moving days. Everyday from morning-evening, it was driving back and forth, loading/unloading the uhaul from our home to our new home as fast as we could before the exp. date. Everyday was 24/7 parents fighting, yelling, and arguing with each other. I was used to seeing my parents fight alot, but this time it was scary different. They were at the brink of splitting up; my dad almost deciding to leave us to live with one of his brothers.
September - December 2012 (Fall 2012 sem @ UOP) The work, stress, and fighting wasn't over yet. The fam still needed help getting the new place fixed and set up, which took lots of school-devoted time and sleep away. That semester was pretty much LESS TIME STUDYING & MORE TIME FAMILY MATTERS. Everyday working, feeling tired, stressed, and seeing my family just break down ruined me. I felt like not working or going to school; all I wanted was to take a break from it all. Seeing all of us fight and about to split up ruined my motivation and mindset to work hard in school. Obviously, my grades suffered as a result.
I only wish you guys could've been in my shoes so you can have a better understanding; it's hard to put all of this into words. And it's even harder for me to post something like this in public because I'm the type of person that doesn't really open up to others. Instead, I tend to keep all of my problems and struggles to myself; not seek help or advice from other people when needed and rather try to solve it on my own; putting up a smile in front of others when really deep down I was a complete mess. I know this isn't the right way to deal with problems and I'm working on trying to change my mindset, which is why I decided to take this time to write to you with an open heart.
As of right now, we're all doing fine, but still recovering. There's surely a lot less fighting and stress, the house doesn't need anymore setting up, everyone is getting enough sleep; things are slowly, but surely getting back to normal. All that and seeing smiles, laughter, and love from my family (things that We've been missing out on for a while) has allowed me to regain my motivation and willingness to work hard. I know i messed up last semester, but I promised myself now that I will do my best to not let myself, my school performance and grades to breakdown again. I'm going to work harder from now on so I can make up for my losses last semester.
SO now here's the part where I need help with: WHAT DO I DO? WHAT ARE SOME PLANS OR ROUTES THAT I SHOULD TAKE? So far I've thought of two options:
Sorry for the long thread, but I really would appreciate the advice anyone would like to offer. And if you were able to read about my experience, that means a lot too. Thanks!!
Before I start talking about my situation, here's a little bg info about myself:
- Currently 20 y.o. biochem undergrad (Junior) @ University of the Pacific in Stockton, CA
- Transferred from a CC in SRING 2012 with a 3.5 overall GPA
- First generation college student; no family members with jobs in medical field
- Earned around 30 hours of dental experience (majority of time was shadowing General Dent, others were shadowing Oral Surg. & experience @ a pre-dent club event)
- Spend around 11 hours/wk (since HS frsh yr. - current) of church (e.g community service events, leadership)
- Have NOT applied to any dent schools nor have taken the DAT yet (will explain later)
So here's what happened: I SCREWED UP BIG TIME MY FIRST SEMESTER @ UOP (Junior Fall 2012)!! My grades were: D+, C, C- for Gen. Chem II, Gen. Physics I, & Biophysical Chem., respectively. These are the WORST grades I've ever had! I'm in a world of hurt right now; I feel like I've seriously RUINED my chances of getting into dental school and that I've let a lot of my friends and family down.
How did I get these grades? It was because I was UNMOTIVATED, LAZY, NOT HARD-WORKING; just straight up IRRESPONSIBLE. From middle to end of Fall 2012 semester, I felt like GIVING UP and not wanting to go to school anymore. I did not keep up with my daily studies, seek any help from friends, family, teachers; I did not utilize my time wells, and even purposely missed lectures and lab days.
You must now be wondering: so why did all of this happen? What caused my school performance to plummet? The reason is because of what my family and I were experiencing for the first time: losing our home to foreclosure. Throughout the WHOLE YEAR 2012, the majority of my time was devoted in trying to help my parents to not lose our home. I can literally WRITE A NOVEL about all the stuff that happened that year, but here's like a general timeline of events:
January - May 2012 (Spring 2012 sem @ CC) was helping parents come up with a backup plan (home mod. attempts, where will we live next?, is there any possible way we can avoid losing the house).
June - August 2012 were our moving days. Everyday from morning-evening, it was driving back and forth, loading/unloading the uhaul from our home to our new home as fast as we could before the exp. date. Everyday was 24/7 parents fighting, yelling, and arguing with each other. I was used to seeing my parents fight alot, but this time it was scary different. They were at the brink of splitting up; my dad almost deciding to leave us to live with one of his brothers.
September - December 2012 (Fall 2012 sem @ UOP) The work, stress, and fighting wasn't over yet. The fam still needed help getting the new place fixed and set up, which took lots of school-devoted time and sleep away. That semester was pretty much LESS TIME STUDYING & MORE TIME FAMILY MATTERS. Everyday working, feeling tired, stressed, and seeing my family just break down ruined me. I felt like not working or going to school; all I wanted was to take a break from it all. Seeing all of us fight and about to split up ruined my motivation and mindset to work hard in school. Obviously, my grades suffered as a result.
I only wish you guys could've been in my shoes so you can have a better understanding; it's hard to put all of this into words. And it's even harder for me to post something like this in public because I'm the type of person that doesn't really open up to others. Instead, I tend to keep all of my problems and struggles to myself; not seek help or advice from other people when needed and rather try to solve it on my own; putting up a smile in front of others when really deep down I was a complete mess. I know this isn't the right way to deal with problems and I'm working on trying to change my mindset, which is why I decided to take this time to write to you with an open heart.
As of right now, we're all doing fine, but still recovering. There's surely a lot less fighting and stress, the house doesn't need anymore setting up, everyone is getting enough sleep; things are slowly, but surely getting back to normal. All that and seeing smiles, laughter, and love from my family (things that We've been missing out on for a while) has allowed me to regain my motivation and willingness to work hard. I know i messed up last semester, but I promised myself now that I will do my best to not let myself, my school performance and grades to breakdown again. I'm going to work harder from now on so I can make up for my losses last semester.
SO now here's the part where I need help with: WHAT DO I DO? WHAT ARE SOME PLANS OR ROUTES THAT I SHOULD TAKE? So far I've thought of two options:
- Plan A: Take DAT & Apply to Dental School in 2014 -
I have not taken Organic Chem I or II yet, but I do plan on fulfilling both of those requirements this Summer 2013 @ Santa Clara University or some other institution. I can't apply to dental schools now because of my GPA from last semester, behind on fulfilling prereqs; nor can I take the DAT this summer because I need to take O-Chem @ SCU this summer. So my plan is to: 1.) Hopefully achieve good grades from now on til I graduate and show dental schools a positive trend in GPA. 2.) Take DAT in Summer 2014 and try to do well. 3.) Apply to dent schools Fall 2014 - Plan B: Post Bac Programs -
If I still fall under a 3.0 GPA when I graduate, then I will have to enroll in Post Bac Programs. Are there any good post-bac programs for predents? So far Ive heard of University of San Francisco and San Francisco State University having these certain programs. Theres also San Jose State Universitys Post Bac Pre-Health Program.. Which one would you recommend?
Sorry for the long thread, but I really would appreciate the advice anyone would like to offer. And if you were able to read about my experience, that means a lot too. Thanks!!